How can you file a complaint against domestic violence?

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[Trigger Warning: The following content contains information on domestic violence which some readers may find disturbing.]

You or anyone on your behalf, can approach the authorities listed below to file a complaint against any domestic violence that you have been facing:

Police

Go to the Police Station

You can approach the police station in your area, or any other police station, and file a complaint for domestic violence. The police will file a DIR/FIR and/or direct you to the Protection Officer of the district who will be able to help you out further.

Protection Officer

Approach the Protection Officer

To file a complaint, the Protection Officer of the district will be the first point of contact for you. The Protection Officer will help you file a Domestic Incident Report (DIR), make applications to the Court to get you monetary relief, protection etc. A state-by-state list of Protection Officers is given here. If you cannot find the Protection Officer of your area, you can reach out to NGOs, civil society organizations and service providers who will put you in touch with one.

National and State Commissions for Women

Approach the National/State Commission for Women

National Commission for Women (NCW) is a national-level government organization that is empowered to investigate complaints related to issues faced by women, such as domestic violence, dowry harassment, rape, etc. The NCW will help you by:

Monitoring and expediting the investigations being led by the police.
Providing counselling or a hearing before the NCW, so that the dispute can be resolved between the two parties.
Constituting an Inquiry Committee which makes spot inquiries, examines witnesses, collects evidence and submits the report with recommendations regarding the domestic violence.

You can get in touch with them by either calling the helpline number 1091, or sending an email to ncw@nic.in or filing an online complaint. As the NCW is located in New Delhi, you can approach the State Commission of Women situated in your state, and ask them for help.

Some states provide handbooks for ASHA workers where you can find more information on forms on violence, where it can happen and how to file a complaint to seek protection against domestic violence. For example, see this handbook published for ASHA in Chattisgarh, Delhi, Jharkhand, Madhya Pradesh and Uttarakhand.

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Sandeep kour

August 21, 2022

My mother in law beaten me…

Nyaaya

August 25, 2022

You can use the Ask Nyaaya Helpline to ask us any legal questions.

MD. Ahtasham uddin chowdhury

October 14, 2023

আসসালামুয়ালাইকুম,স্যার আমি বাংলাদেশে থেকে বলছি। আমার এক বোন থাকে ক্যেলিফোনিয়া তার দুটি সন্তান রয়েছে। তার স্বামী তাকে পাগল বলে তার থেকে তার সন্তানদের নিয়ে তাকে বাসায় একা ফেলে চলে গেছে। সে বাচ্চাদের অনেক ভালবাসে। সে বাচ্চাদের শাসন করত একটু জোরে কথা বলত। এখন তার স্বামী আরেকটি বিয়ে করবে ও তাকে ডিভোর্স দিয়ে দিতে চাচ্ছে। এক বৎসর সে আমার বোন কে ডিভোর্স দেয়ার প্লেন করে তাকে ভালবাসার অভিনয় করে। এখন আমরা অনেক দূরে থাকি আপনাদের আমেরিকা তে কি ভাবে আমার বোন আইনী সহায়তা পাব? একটু জানতে চাই?

Vartika verma

February 23, 2024

Mam last kuch years se bht pareshan hai humare papa ka behaviour bht toxic hota ja Raha h day by day ,pehle sirf daaru pikr aate the idr udr ki baatein karte the vo bhi negative,or ab pikr aana maar Peet karna ,maarne ki dhamki dena shuru kar dia hai,badnami na ho isliye hum shanti se jhel rhe the sab kuch par ab ni jhela ja Raha h humko itna Darr rehta h ki hum apni maa ko 1din k liye chhodh kr kahi ja ni sakte.unko kuch ni bolte par unko ye lagta h ki paise kamane vale bss vhi h ghr m to hum log jhelenge hi aise ya vaise.pr ab ni hora hai mam future career sab dao p laga h ab to humko bhi gaali dete h or maa rokti h to unko bhi dete h or bolte h jyada udo ni jyada sar p mat chadhao,btaiye,kya karein…aisa hi chalta raha to hum kuch kar hi ni payenge or apne hi jaise kisi janwar se shadi kra denge ye humari zabardasti.hum sirf 20 saal k h or abhi bss apni padhai p focus krna chahte h mam,or iss toxic environment se nikalna chahte h apni maa k sath,or hn ye Jo insaan h jo hmesha abhadra bhasa ka prayog krta h ye bhi ni dekhta saamne beti h vo khud police m h head constable h or usi ka ghamand h ki police m h to koi kuch ni kar skta… Bolte h police department h bhrasht koi humare against kuch ni krega or idr Jo kisi ne Kia usko hum maal tez krk maar denge .mam koi aisa solution btaiye ki hum yha se nikal jayein or inko saza bhi mile or next 2yrs jb tk humari padhai ni complete hojati tb tk maintainance.or sbse important cheez complaint krne k baad security..ni to ye insaan maar dalega

Alka Manral

May 24, 2024

यह स्थिति घरेलू हिंसा, मौखिक अपमान, शारीरिक हानि की धमकियाँ, और द्वेषपूर्ण माहौल बनाने के अपराधों को शामिल करती है। भारतीय कानूनके तहत इन अपराधों को संबोधित करने के लिए उपाय उपलब्ध हैं। पीड़ित व्यक्तियों को पुलिस में शिकायत दर्ज करनी चाहिए, विशेष रूप से घरेलूहिंसा के मामलों के लिए महिला सेल या घरेलू हिंसा मामलों के लिए विशेष इकाई। शिकायत में हिंसा, धमकियाँ, और हिंसा की घटनाओं काविस्तार से विवरण होना चाहिए।
संरक्षण आदेश: शिकायत दर्ज करने के बाद, पीड़ित व्यक्तियों को न्यायालय से संरक्षण आदेश मांग सकते हैं, जो उन्हें अब और संपर्क करने से रोकसकता है।

आश्रय खोजना: तत्काल खतरे के मामलों में, पीड़ित व्यक्तियाँ सरकार द्वारा संचालित आश्रयों या गैर सरकारी संगठनों में आश्रय ढूंढ सकती हैं। कानूनी कार्रवाई: पीड़ित व्यक्तियाँ घटनाओं के खिलाफ कानूनी कार्रवाई कर सकती हैं, जैसे कि महिलाओं की संरक्षा के लिए घरेलू हिंसा अधिनियम, 2005, भारतीय दंड संहिता (आईपीसी) के धाराओं के तहत हमले, धमकियाँ, और अपराध की धमकी, साथ ही अन्य संबंधित कानूनों के तहत।

परामर्श और सहारा: पीड़ित व्यक्तियाँ संत्रस्तता से निपटने के लिए सरकारी एजेंसियों, गैर सरकारी संगठनों, या मानसिक स्वास्थ्य पेशेवरों द्वारा प्रदानकिए जाने वाले परामर्श और सहारा सेवाओं की खोज कर सकती हैं।

विवाह या अलगाव: अत्यधिक मामलों में, जहां कानूनी हस्तक्षेप के बावजूद हिंसा जारी रहती है, पीड़ित व्यक्तियाँ विवाह या कानूनी अलगाव कीतलाश कर सकती हैं ताकि उनकी दीर्घकालिक सुरक्षा और कल्याण सुनिश्चित हो सके।

यह उल्लिखित है कि पीड़ित व्यक्तियों की सुरक्षा और कल्याण सुनिश्चित करने के लिए प्रासंगिक अधिकारियों और संगठनों से सहायता और समर्थनलेना महत्वपूर्ण है।

Prity Raj

September 9, 2024

Mera pati mujhe Marta hai gali deta hai or daily sex karne ke liye bolta hai mai agar mana kar deti hu to raat mai hi chilaney lagta hai .or kuch bolo to. Merey mummy papa ko gali deta hai .ish se 3 saal pehle bhi mera pati mujhe mat Chuka hai tab bhi mai police mai gayi thi.tab to ye mafi mang raha tha .ab mujhe apne ghar la kar phir se wahi kaam kar raha hai or chut chut sabko bolta hai ki mai ushey Marti hi

Sheeba

March 18, 2024

My husband & mother in law abuse me & husband beaten me

ಪಲ್ಲವಿ. ಪಿ

October 4, 2024

ನಾನು ಬಡ ಕುಟುಂಬ ದವಳು ಆದರೂ ನನ್ನ ಅತ್ತೆ ಮಗಳಂತೆ ನೋಡ್ಕೋತೀನಿ ಅಂಥ ಮದ್ವೆ ಮಾಡ್ಕೊಂಡು ಇವಾಗ ನನ್ನ ಮೇಲೆ ನನ್ನ ಅತ್ತೆ, ನನ್ನ ಗಂಡ, ಮತ್ತು ನಾದಿನಿ ನನ್ನ ಮೇಲೆ ದೌರ್ಜನ್ಯ ಮದುತಿದರೆ , ನನಿಗೆ ಜೀವ ಬೆದರಿಕೆ ಹಕುತಿದರೆ ನಾನು ಎಸ್ಟು ನನ್ನ ಗಂಡನ ಮನೇಲಿ ಒಂದೀ ಕೊಂಡು ಹೋಗುತಿದ್ದರು ನನಿಗೆ ನೆಮ್ಮದಿ ಯಾಗಿ ನನ್ನ ಗಂಡನ ಜೊತೆ ಸಂಸಾರ ಮಾಡಲು ಬಿದಡು ತಿಲ ನನ್ನ ಗಂಡನಿಗೆ ಚಾಡಿ ಹೇಳಿ ನನ್ನ ಮೇಲೆ ಹೊಡಿಸುತ್ತರೆ ಅವನು ಅವರ ಮಾತಿನಂತೆ ನನ್ನ ಮೇಲೆ ಕೈಮಡುತಾನೇ ನಮ್ಮ ಅತ್ತೆ ಯಾವಾಗಲೂ ಡೈವೋರ್ಸ್ ಕೊಟ್ಟು ಬಿಡು ಇನೊಂದು ಮದುವೆ ಮಾಡತೀನಿ ನಿಂಗೆ ಅಂಥ ಹೇಳುತಿರುತಲೆ ನನಿಗೆ ಗಂಡನ ಮನೇಲಿ ಮಾನಸಿಕ ವಾಗಿ ಹಿಂಸೆ ಕೊಡುತಿದರೆ ನಾನು ಬೇರೆ ಬರ್ತೀನಿ ಅಂದ್ರೆ ನನಿಗೆ ಜೀವ ಬೆದರಿಕೆ ಹಾಕುತ್ತಾರೆ

alishka

May 15, 2024

Hello I’m alishka, Actually what happened, that today a random boy messaged me and asked me some questions and talked about some sex related things and I told him that I am not interested in all this and that boy started abusing me without any reason and started judging me on my status. so what do i do?

Alka Manral

August 20, 2024

So, you can file an FIR under Section 79 of BNS that concerns with insulting the modesty of a woman. Under this Section, the state of the remark as being displayed ‘in any form’ will be relevant to the fact that this was online and also was intended to be seen by you. Since this is a cognizable offense under the First Schedule of the BNSS, 2023, you can directly approach a police station and file an FIR either in writing or orally which the police officer- in charge will be mandated to accept.

Akansha

May 25, 2024

Agar ghar me bhai papa bhut marete ho to kya kre

Saista Praween

May 27, 2024

Meri Sadi ko 10 saal hone Wale h or mere 3 bachhe h par mere husband humesa sarab pee kar bachho ke samne mere sath mar pit or gali galoj karte h,or mere husband ka dusri ourato ke sath galat sambandh v hain humesa se, main isse pahle mahila aayog me complaint Kari thi but waha par mere husband compermise kar liye or jab file band ho gaya toh fir pahle se v jyada bura kar rahe h mere sath, mere mayke Wale garib h isliye mere sasural Wale dabakar rakhte h mujhe or mere ammi abbu ko , main kya karu kuch v samajh nahi aa Raha h bohot jyada pareshan ho chuki hu main please help me

Priti Sagar sakpal

June 3, 2024

Sir mujhe police complaint karni hai domestic violence ke liye mera hasband mujhe mentally phisical torcher karta hai muje
Kai ma police station ja ke

Rangaswamy B R

August 11, 2024

ನನ್ನ ಬಗ್ಗೆ ಇಲ್ಲಿ ಒಬ್ಬ ಆಸಾಬ್ಬ್ಯಾ ಶೇಬ್ದಗಳಿಂದ ಕುಡಿದು ಬಂದು ಮಾತಾಡುತ್ತಾನೆ ಇವನ ಬಗ್ಗೆ ಕಾನೂನು ಕ್ರಮ ತೆಗೆದುಕೊಳ್ಳಿ

Sunil jaiswar

November 13, 2024

Mere papa or chacha dono mil kar mujhe tocher kar rahe hai or mere saatha aarha paee pe utar Aa A hai
Mare sahayata kijiye

Dr priya Kumari

November 18, 2024

My husband bitten me after drinking m a doctor m suffering so much

Kajal khatoon

August 29, 2022

Hello sir my name is kajal khatoon or meri maa mujhe bhut Marti b gandi gandi galiya deti h jaan se marne ki kosis bhi kr chuki h or dhmkiya deti h bhut Marti h aaj bhi mujhe maara gaya h agar main kehti hu police ko bol dugi to mera fon chin liya jata h sir plzz help me sir

Nyaaya

September 5, 2022

Do you want to file a complaint?

Alishiba

July 30, 2023

Hello sir, i am having some domestic violence from my In laws sides my husband torcher me on each every small things e.g-why you called to your mom dad dont go here l, dont go there y u see here n there, y u had lunch dinner without me and some mentally n physically torcher which i cant comment here,I explained all this to his parents but its came reverse on me that u did something your son is not like this not like that,even many times my in laws beaten me, and under frustration i tried to suicide cause they snatched my baby and pull me out of home at night 12/1 o clock wjat should i do please help me?

Satish Kumar

November 20, 2024

लव मैरिज शादी किया था अब रहने के लिए जगह नहीं दे रहे हैं

Madhur Jain

August 21, 2023

Yess

ಪೂರ್ಣಿಮಾ

November 14, 2023

ನನ್ನ ಗಂಡ ನನಗೆ ಮೋಸ ಮಾಡುತ್ತಿದ್ದಾರೆ. ಅದನ್ನು ಕೇಳಿದಕ್ಕೆ ಮನೇಲಿ ಜಗಳ ಮಾಡಿ
ನನ್ನನ್ನು ದೂಶೀ ಸುತ್ತಿದ್ದಾರೆ ನನಗೆ ಕೇಳುವ ಹಕ್ಕಿಲ್ಲ ಎಂದು ಕೀಳಾಗಿ ನೋಡುತಿದ್ದರೆ ಹಾಗೂ ಬಾಯಿಗೆ ಬಂದ ಹಾಗೆ ಬೈದು ಹಿಯಾಲಿಸುತ್ತಿದ್ದರೆ.

Veera Lawrence

March 3, 2024

Hi,muzhe apne husband se bahut pareshani hai.woh drinks pi ke chub logo se aur mere saath bhi ladte hai.aap bahaeye ki mein kya karu

Sikha

November 8, 2024

Aapki pareshani ko samajhne mein mujhe bahut dukh hua. Gharelu hinsa kabhi bhi sahi nahi hai aur aap akele nahi hain. Aapki madad ke liye kai sansadhan uplabdh hain.
Sabse pehle, aap apni suraksha sunishchit karen. Agar aapko khatra hai ki aapka pati aapko nuksan pahuncha sakta hai, to turant kisi surakshit jagah par jaen. Aap kisi mitra, parivar ke sadasya ya mahila aashray mein ja sakti hain.
Yahan kuchh helpline numbers aur authorities hain jinse aap sampark kar sakti hain:
National Commission for Women: 1800-180-1096
Mahila Shakti Kendra: 181
Police: 100
Child Helpline: 1098
Aap in websites par bhi jaa sakti hain:
National Commission for Women: http://ncw.nic.in/
Mahila Shakti Kendra: https://wcd.nic.in/schemes/mahila-shakti-kendras-msk
Aap apne mamle ki report police mein bhi kar sakti hain. Police aapko suraksha pradan karne aur aapke pati ke khilaf karvayi karne mein madad karegi.
Yaad rakhen, aap akeli nahi hain aur aapki madad ke liye log uplabdh hain. Aapko apne pati ka durvyavhar bardasht karne ki koi avashyakta nahi hai.
Kuchh aur sujhav:
Kisi vishwasniiya mitra ya parivar ke sadasya se baat karen. Aapki baat sunne aur aapko samarthan dene wala koi hona mahatvpurn hai.
Ek therapist ya counselor se baat karen. Ve aapko apne anubhavon se nipatne aur aage badhane ke liye swasth tarike viksit karne mein madad kar sakte hain.
Kisi support group mein shamil hon. Anya mahilaon se milna jo saman anubhavon se guzer rahi hain, aapko kam akeli mahsus karne mein madad kar sakta hai aur aapko samarthan aur salah pradan kar sakta hai.
Aapko shakti aur sahas mile.
Here are some additional resources in Hindi:
Sakshi Women’s Resource Centre: https://sakshi.org.in/
The ASHA Foundation: https://find.asha.org/ashfoundation/
Jagriti Women’s Resource Centre: https://www.jagritifoundation.org/about

Ratna sonawane

March 4, 2024

Mere shadi ko 3 saal hue hai .. mere pati roj drink karke aata hai or mujhe bolte hai k mere ghr se nikal ja matre bhi hai or gandi gandi galiya bhi dete hai

Sikha

November 8, 2024

Uss ghar se niklo, apne pati ki police complaint karao- 112 par call karke nahi toh mahillao ki helpline no. 1091 ko call kare , yeh gharelu hinsa ka mamla hai aur dandniya apraadh hai. Mein jaanti hu ki yeh tumhare liye bada bura samay hai par tumne himmat karke sawal pucha hai ab thodi aur himmat dikhao aur call karke madad ki guhaar lagao.
Mein neecha helpline number de rahi hu jinhe aap call karke madad maang sakte hai
National Commission for Women Helpline 7827170170
Central Social Welfare Board -Police Helpline 1091/ 1291, (011) 23317004
Shakti Shalini 10920
Shakti Shalini – women’s shelter (011) 24373736/ 24373737
SAARTHAK (011) 26853846/ 26524061
All India Women’s Conference 10921/ (011) 23389680
JAGORI (011) 26692700
+918800996640
Joint Women’s Programme (also has branches in Bangalore, Kolkata, Chennai) (011) 24619821
Sakshi – violence intervention centre (0124) 2562336/ 5018873
Saheli – a womens organisation (011) 24616485 (Saturdays)
Nirmal Niketan (011) 27859158
Nari Raksha Samiti (011) 23973949
Apne ghar ke aas paas mahilla sashaktikaran se juda NGO ya sansthaye dhudho aur waha jaakar madad maango.
Aasha karti hu isse tumhari kuch sahayata ho sake.

Rahul Rathod

April 26, 2024

Hi,

I need support from you for my mother and my family against my father. He is a very toxic and threatening person. We have been living separately from him for 10 years because he beat my mother badly, and at that time, we filed a complaint against him. However, no strong action was taken by the police. Now, he frequently comes to our relatives and abuses us, giving many threats that he will kill us if he finds us. We are living separately, but he doesn’t know where, and he is desperately searching for us.

I am the elder son of my mother, and I have two sisters. The whole family depends on me. If I lose my job because of this, we will have nothing. We don’t want to confront him face to face because we don’t know what he will do afterward. He may follow us and definitely do something harmful to my family. So, I would like to request your help.

Alka Manral

May 31, 2024

In case of a woman, you can call the helpline num. 1090 (National Woman Helpline) or your state’s helpline number related to the same, which can be found [https://www.indiacustomercare.com/women-helpline-numbers.
These can be helpful in case of any emergency situation that may arise involving threats from your father.
You can choose any of the below: 1. File a case under Section 503 (Criminal Intimidation) of IPC as your father is threatening to kill or injure you or your family and injure your family’s reputation. 2. You can file for a protection order under section 18 of the Protection of Women from Domestic Violence Act, 2005 seeking restrain on your father from entering the place of residence of your mother and sisters. Since there have been prior instances of domestic violence being inflicted on your mother, this protection can be obtained despite the fact of seperate residence for the last 10 years. 2. Your mother may choose to file for divorce since this will lead to legal separation and you can even file for restraining orders from the court during divorce proceedings. Grounds for divorce under the Hindu Marriage Act, 1955 based on your situation are the following: a. Section 13(1)(ia) (Divorce on Grounds of Cruelty) – Since your father’s threatening behaviour towards your mother and your family amounts to cruelty you can choose to file for divorce under this section. b. Section 13(1)(ib) (Desertion) – Establish that your father has deserted your family without reasonable cause for a continuous period of two years.

Puspa Ray Mandal

November 3, 2022

Hlw sir, mera name puspa Ray Mandal h, main apne husband (Sujit Mandal) se bahut pareshan hun wo pikar ate h aur mujhe janwar ke tarah marte rahte h aur bolte h mar dalenge ,mere sasural Wale meri koi help nahi karte h, wo log sirf dekhte rahte h, meri 2 beti h wo log ko v kabhi kabhi marte h mere sath,mujhe aaplogo ki help chahiye pls meri help kare

Nyaaya

November 11, 2022

Thank you for writing to Nyaaya. Ma’am, aap chaahein toh aap apne pati ke khilaaf police complaint kar sakte hain. Hum aapki complaint file nahi kar sakte, lekin hum aapko Free Legal Aid dilwa sakte hain, yadi aapko chahiye.

Reena Pradhan

November 27, 2023

I am being tortured by my brother in law and he is continuously using u parliamentary language and man handling .I tolerated for certain years because of my husband who is really a gentleman and has lot of dedication for his family, now things go out of tolerance as again he has started abusing and threatening to kill us and kick us from the house which we have constructed on our father in law’s place though he’s alive and very old we are unable to leave or rather continue living.
Please guide me what to do?

Sikha

October 21, 2024

You are absolutely right to seek immediate protection and file a police complaint. Here are the relevant provisions under the new Indian laws that you should be aware of:
1. Protection of Women from Domestic Violence Act, 2005 (PWDVA):
Section 2(a): Defines “domestic violence” broadly to include:
Physical Abuse: Any harm caused to your body, including assault, pushing, shoving, slapping, kicking, punching, etc.
Verbal Abuse: Insults, threats, name-calling, humiliation, intimidation, etc.
Emotional Abuse: Controlling behavior, isolation, manipulation, gaslighting, etc.
Economic Abuse: Controlling access to finances, preventing you from working, etc.

Section 3: Empowers you to file a complaint for protection against domestic violence with a Magistrate.
Section 9: The Magistrate can issue a Protection Order against your brother-in-law, which can include:
Restraining Orders: Preventing him from contacting or coming near you.
Compensation Orders: Ordering him to pay for medical expenses, mental health treatment, or other damages.
Section 18: A police officer has the power to take action in a case of domestic violence, including arresting the abuser.

2. Bharatiya Nyaya Sanhita, 2023 (Indian Penal Code):
Section 115: Voluntarily Causing Hurt: This applies if your brother-in-law has physically harmed you.
Section 118: Voluntarily Causing Grievous Hurt: This applies if the injuries are serious and require medical attention.
Section 118(3): Voluntarily Causing Grievous Hurt by Dangerous Means: This applies if your brother-in-law has used a weapon or dangerous object to injure you.
Section 109: Attempt to Murder: This applies if he threatened to kill you, especially if there were actions to suggest he was serious about carrying out the threat.
Section 351: Criminal Intimidation: This applies if he threatened to harm you, your husband, or your family to force you to leave the house.

3. Bharatiya Nagarik Suraksha Sanhita, 2023 (Indian Criminal Procedure Code):
Section 173: The police officer is obligated to register a First Information Report (FIR) based on your complaint if it alleges a cognizable offense (such as the ones mentioned above from the Bharatiya Nyaya Sanhita).
Section 190: The police must then forward the case to a Magistrate if they have reasonable grounds to believe that an offense has been committed.

Key Points:
PWDVA: This Act is crucial for your situation. It specifically addresses domestic violence and provides protection orders and legal remedies for women.
Bharatiya Nyaya Sanhita: The provisions of this code define the criminal offenses that may have been committed by your brother-in-law, allowing you to pursue charges.
Bharatiya Nagarik Suraksha Sanhita: This code ensures the police are obligated to register your complaint and forward the case to a Magistrate.

Ratna sonawane

March 4, 2024

Mere pati mere sath bohot bura bartav krte hai .. roh drink krte hai marte hai. Or gandi gandi galiya bhi dete hai Mera Chita beta hai dedh saal ka uske samne bhi bohot chillate hai bacha bohot dar jata hai

Kiranmayee Nalkari

October 2, 2024

Namaskaram sir/madam
Naa bhartha pette mental torchure bharinchadam naa valla kavadam ledu. Pellainappati nundi ippati varaku (18 years) okka Responsibility kudaa propergaa fulfill cheyyaledu. Athani drushti nenu oka baanishani. Athadu elaa unna entha abusive gaa unna nenu calmga bharinchi anni nene cheyyali. Entha somaripothu ante cheppadam chaala kashtam. Ithanu oka pedda psycho. Naanu అత్యంత ghoranaga vaadokuntunnadu. Anni baadhytalu nirvarthinchadam naa valla avvadam ledu. Naa health naaku sahakarinchadam ledu. Andari mundu anni athade chesthunnattu build up isthadu. Kani athadu edi cheyyadu, okavela, chesinaa naku malli double work ayyela chesthadu. Thanani thaanu kaapadukovadaniki, Padi mandi lo nannu doshi gaa nilabedathaadu. Naaku nenu chachipothe bagundu anipisthundi. Please help me. I need support.

Annu

June 9, 2023

Mere se or mar pit nhi shi jati isliye meghar se bhag gyi thi me 23 sal ki hu apne hisabse jina chahti right to freedom act ke through jab se ayi lock me band hu aesa chalta raha to me soucide kr lugi ..mujhe torcher kiya ja raha me bs ek request krti hu mujhe mere mummy papa se door krdo me daily nhi rho sakti apse vinti krti hu plz action lo to hi reply lena but action na liya bat pta chala gyi me aesa kr rahi hu mummy paoa mar dalege …thank you

Sikha

November 8, 2024

वर्णित स्थिति में कानूनी अपराधों में घरेलू हिंसा, अवैध बंधन, और संभवतः आत्महत्या के लिए उकसाना शामिल हैं। यहाँ भारतीय कानून के तहतसंबंधित कानूनी प्रावधान और उपाय दिए गए हैं:

कानूनी अपराध
घरेलू हिंसा:

घरेलू हिंसा से महिलाओं का संरक्षण अधिनियम, 2005 (PWDVA) शारीरिक, भावनात्मक, और मानसिक शोषण को कवर करता है जो परिवार केसदस्यों द्वारा किया जाता है।
PWDVA की धारा 3 और 12 के तहत सुरक्षा आदेश, आवास आदेश और मौद्रिक राहत मांगी जा सकती है।
अवैध बंधन:

भारतीय दंड संहिता (IPC) की धारा 340 गलत बंधन को परिभाषित करती है, और धारा 342 IPC गलत बंधन के लिए सजा का प्रावधान करतीहै, जो एक साल तक की कैद या जुर्माना, या दोनों हो सकता है।
आत्महत्या के लिए उकसाना:

IPC की धारा 306 आत्महत्या के लिए उकसाने से संबंधित है। यदि उत्पीड़न या यातना के कारण कोई व्यक्ति आत्महत्या करता है, तो दोषियों को10 साल तक की कैद और जुर्माना हो सकता है।

भारत में घरेलू हिंसा, अवैध बंधन और उत्पीड़न से संबंधित स्थितियों से निपटने के लिए कई कानूनी उपाय उपलब्ध हैं। सबसे पहले कदमों में से एकपुलिस में शिकायत दर्ज कराना है। आपको स्थानीय पुलिस स्टेशन जाकर अपराधियों के खिलाफ भारतीय दंड संहिता (IPC) और घरेलू हिंसा सेमहिलाओं का संरक्षण अधिनियम (PWDVA) की संबंधित धाराओं के तहत प्रथम सूचना रिपोर्ट (FIR) दर्ज करनी चाहिए। पुलिस आपकी शिकायतके आधार पर जांच शुरू कर सकती है और आवश्यक कार्रवाई कर सकती है।

PWDVA के तहत सुरक्षा आदेश एक और महत्वपूर्ण उपाय प्रदान करते हैं। आप घरेलू हिंसा से सुरक्षा के लिए PWDVA की धारा 12 के तहतअदालत में आवेदन कर सकते हैं। अदालत विभिन्न आदेश जारी कर सकती है, जिसमें आगे के शोषण को रोकने के लिए सुरक्षा आदेश, आवासआदेश और वित्तीय आवश्यकताओं को पूरा करने के लिए मौद्रिक राहत शामिल हैं।

महिला हेल्पलाइनों और गैर-सरकारी संगठनों (NGOs) से संपर्क करना भी एक व्यावहारिक कदम है। 181 जैसी हेल्पलाइनों और महिलाओं कीसुरक्षा के लिए काम करने वाले विभिन्न NGOs तत्काल सहायता, परामर्श और आश्रय प्रदान कर सकते हैं। ये संगठन अक्सर समर्थन सेवाएं प्रदानकरते हैं जो आपको कानूनी प्रक्रिया को नेविगेट करने और आपकी सुरक्षा सुनिश्चित करने में मदद कर सकते हैं।

कानूनी सहायता और परामर्श महिलाओं के लिए बहुत महत्वपूर्ण हैं। जिला कानूनी सेवा प्राधिकरण (DLSA) जैसे कानूनी सेवाएं प्राधिकरण मुफ्तकानूनी सहायता प्रदान करते हैं, जिससे यह सुनिश्चित होता है कि आपको कानूनी प्रतिनिधित्व और परामर्श की सुविधा मिल सके। यह समर्थन कानूनीकार्रवाई को आगे बढ़ाने और आपके अधिकारों को सुरक्षित करने में महत्वपूर्ण हो सकता है।

आप राष्ट्रीय महिला आयोग (NCW) से भी हस्तक्षेप के लिए संपर्क कर सकते हैं। NCW उत्पीड़न और शोषण के मामलों की जांच करने और उचितकार्रवाई की सिफारिश करने का अधिकार रखता है। वे यह सुनिश्चित करने में एक मूल्यवान संसाधन हो सकते हैं कि आपका मामला आवश्यक ध्यानऔर कार्रवाई प्राप्त करे।

आपकी सुरक्षा और भलाई के लिए त्वरित कदम उठाना महत्वपूर्ण है। दुरुपयोग और बंधन की रिपोर्ट करने के लिए 100 डायल करके या निकटतमपुलिस स्टेशन जाकर पुलिस से संपर्क करें। यदि आपका जीवन तत्काल खतरे में है, तो अपनी सुरक्षा सुनिश्चित करने के लिए किसी आश्रय गृह यासुरक्षित स्थान पर शरण लें।

Saniya

March 17, 2024

Hlo sir mera nam saniya h mai shahara mai rehti hu mera bhai mujhe roj marta h Or mujhe jaan se marne ki dhamki de rha h mujhe yaha se bacha li kiye plsssssssssssss

Varsha kumari

April 27, 2024

Mera husband mujhe blackmail krta hai out mujhe marta hai Mera hath bhi jla diya usme mujhe dhahej ke liye pratadit krta hai mujhe pregnancy me usme mujhe bhut jyada tention di preshan kiya our ab me apne mayke me hu to bhi mujhe nhi ki me de rha muje meri family ko pH krke ulte sidhi dhamki deta hai our blackmail krta hai usne mujhe sadi ke baad man force ki goli milk me deke mere sath jabardasti krne ki koshis kri glt trike se sambandh bnaye usme sath uski ma ne diya our ab uska sath uska bich wala bhai de rha hai mere husband kaname vivek h uske bhai ka name atil hai aaj usne mujhe bhut jyada preshan kr diya hai mujhe susait krne pr majbur kr diya hai

Alka Manral

May 23, 2024

Pehle toh, aapko ek NGO se ya fir National Commission for Women ki helpline (neechey di gayi details) se sampark karna chahiye, jo aapko aapke samasya ke baare mein guide karega. Unse baat karne ke baad, seedha Police Station ja sakte hain, ya toh aap apne saas-sasur aapko nahi rehne dene aur aapke saath ho rahi anya pareshaniyon ke FIR darj karwa sakte hain, ya Police officers se madad maang sakte hain ki aapko “Protection Officer” ko niyukt karne mein madad mile, Protection Officer ko niyukt karne ka ek aur tareeka National/State Commission for Women se sampark karna hai, jo aapko kshetra-wise Protection Officers ki soochi pradan karega. Yeh Protection Officer aapke mamle mein aapka guide hoga aur aapka adhikar hai ki aap ek female officer ka maang karein. Yeh Protection Officer aapko aapke legal rights ke baare mein inform karega, aapko court process ke dauran support karega, aapki suraksha ke liye avashyak upaayon ka vivaran taiyar karega, aur court se jo aap maang rahe hain, unki vyavastha karega, aap aur/va aapke bachche ko agar koi chot lagi hai toh unhe medical sahayata pradan karega, aapko legal support, counseling, medical facilities, shelter homes, etc. ke sahayak pradan karne waale service providers se jod dega.
Protection Officer ke paas jaane ke baad, ve aapko jis kshetra mein aap nivaas karte hain ya aapke saas-sasur nivaas karte hain ya jahan par ghar ke andar hinsa hui hai, uss area ke Magistrate ko Domestic Incident Report banana mein aapki madad karenge. Is report mein aapne jo bhi samasyaon ka samna kiya hai, uske saath-saath aapki maang ka vivaran hoga; aap is application ka ek muft copy apne paas rakh sakte hain aur Protection Officer aapki isme madad karega. Is maang ki ek copy ko bhi woh kshetra ke Police Officer ko bhej diya jaana chahiye, yeh sunishchit karna hoga Protection Officer dwara. Application ko Magistrate ke paas dakhil karne ke baad, ek sunvaai ki date tay ki jaani chahiye, ya toh aap aur/va aapke Protection Officer dwara.
Aapko Protection Officer niyukt karne aur aapko anya kanooni sahayata pradan karne ke aapke prakriya mein madad karne waale resourse neeche diye gaye hain:
National Commission for Women Helpline: 7827-170-170
ASK Foundation Crisis Helpline (NGO): +918793088814
Domestic Abuse Helpline: 181

Jyoti Gupta

May 27, 2024

Mera pati muj roj marrta he daru pike Bina galti ke me bahot pareshan ho chuki hu meri 6 month ki beti bhi he 😭😭😭😭 muj ek paise nahi deta mango to Marta he😭😭😭😭😭 or baher usaka affair chal raha he ladkiya leke ghumta he rat rat bhar kuch bolu to sida marrta he mere aage piche koi nahi he na maa nahi papa me kya karu muj samj me nahi aa raha he sirf ek hi dimang me aa raha he beti ko leke khud khushi kar lu jindagi ab jine ka man nahi karta he 😭😭😭😭😭😭🌞😭😭😭😭 marr marr ke meri body kharab kar diya jaha dekho dag hi dag dikhege yaha Tak Mera dat bhi Tod Diya marr marr ke😭😭😭😭 police complaint karne gai to police vale bolte he pati patni ka mamla he complaint nahi hota he court me jao mere pass ek pais nahi he me kaise jau court me mere pati ka name he govind Kumar 9867512603 no he pati ka mere

Jyoti Gupta

May 27, 2024

Shraddha

June 7, 2024

My husband torture me during pregnancy period mentally and physically.. his family also involve in this.

Alka Manral

August 20, 2024

1) Under the new BNS, you have several remedies available for torture depending on the situation. Considering the situation: Section 117. Voluntarily causing Grievous Hurt may apply if it caused any permanent disability or even severe bodily pain. If you were subject to grievous hurt by a dangerous weapon then even Section 118 may apply. Since both Section 117 and 118 come under Cognizable offenses under the First Schedule of the BNSS, 2023, you can under Section 173 of the BNSS, file an FIR either orally or in writing to any police station regardless of where the crime was committed since the police under the new BNSS will be obligated to accept your FIR no matter what. 2) A case can also be filed under the Protection of Women from Domestic Abuse Act 2005, in the form of a Domestic Incident Report (DIR). This is to be done to the Protection Officer of your district who will record the DIR under Section 9 (1)(b) (2) of the Protection of Women from Domestic Abuse Act 2005. To access the Protection Officer, you can contact the State Women and Child Development Department where each state will have the list of Protection Officers on its website. You can also directly approach the Magistrate or a police officer to file a DIR.

Rashmi

June 29, 2024

Sir i am facing problem from my husband he give me a lot of thoucher so plz help me

Shivani sonker

July 23, 2024

Mera naam Shivani sonker hain mai Bareilly ki rhne bali hu modal town Vishnupuri gali meri saas mujhe bahut pareshan karti hain mujhe mere pati se pitbati hain bahut kl bhi mujhe bahut mara mujhse khana banbati h zabardasti agar na baun to ladai krti Hain bahut sari bahuyo ke sath esha hi kiya hain sub alg alg ho gai ab mere piche padi rhti hain please help me kyu meri love marriage hui h to mere Ghar bale bhi sath nhi dete hain please help me

Dilshana

October 4, 2024

MERE BHAI ME MUJHE MERI DOST SE BAAT KARNE PAR LOHA SE MARA

Kanika arora

August 23, 2022

Plz hlp me

Nyaaya

August 25, 2022

You can use The Ask Nyaaya Helpline to ask us any legal questions.

Laxmi

September 11, 2022

Namaskar sir,
Sir meri shadi ko 25 saal ho gye h , mere husband 2016 mai BSF se jabardasti VRS le kr aagye ab na to koi kam krte h na hi ghar m koi help krte h shamko daru pee kr mere or mere baccho ke sath jhagda krte h gali galoch krte h phir mar pitai kerne lagte h kai saal se apni or apne baccho ki Ijjat ke bare m sochte hua kahi koi shikayat nhi kari, but abhi bhot jyada ho gya h mere beti jo final year m padhai krti h ghar m jhagde ki wajah se PG m rahti beta ghar m h job dhood raha h, roj roj ke jhagde ki wajah se ghar ka mahol bhot kharab ho gya h,. Aapse hath jod kr nivedan h mere help kijiye.. Mere husband ka nam praveen kumar h.. Mobile no 9871088527 hai.

Nyaaya

October 7, 2022

घरेलू हिंसा की शिकायत करने का प्रोसेस:-
(1) सबसे पहले पीड़िता को पुलिस स्टेशन या कोर्ट में कम्प्लेन करानी होगी।

(2) इसके बाद, जिस व्यक्ति के खिलाफ कम्प्लेन फाइल हुई है, उसको कोर्ट द्वारा बुलाया जायेगा।

(3) इसके बाद कोर्ट के जज समझेंगे कि दोषी की गलती है या नहीं। और अगर है, तो कितनी गलती है। इसके आधार पर कोर्ट तय करेगी कि पीड़िता को मेंटेनेंस मिलना चाहिए या नहीं।

(4) इसके बाद, कोर्ट दोषी की आर्थिक स्तिथि को ध्यान में रखकर तय करेगी कि पीड़िता को कितना मेंटेनेंस मिलेगा और सुबूतों के आधार पर अपना फाइनल डिसीज़न करेगी।

Annu

June 9, 2023

Or agar vo insan police station tk ja hi nhi pa raha ho to us ek kamere me band kr diya ho sim bhi nhi ho net chal rahaho bs phone me wifi se to use kya Krna chaiye kaise complaint kre??reply mere main pr dena mummy papa ko pta chala to mar dalege jan se…sach bol rhi hu

Sikha

November 8, 2024

यदि आप एक कमरे में बंद हैं और पुलिस स्टेशन नहीं जा सकते, लेकिन आपके पास वाईफाई से जुड़ा फोन है, तो भी आप भारतीय कानून के तहतमदद मांग सकते हैं और शिकायत दर्ज कर सकते हैं। यहां आपके द्वारा उठाए जा सकने वाले कदम दिए गए हैं:

पुलिस को ऑनलाइन शिकायत:
भारत के कई राज्य पुलिस विभाग ऑनलाइन शिकायत दर्ज करने की सुविधा प्रदान करते हैं। अपने राज्य के पुलिस विभाग की आधिकारिक वेबसाइटपर जाएं और ऑनलाइन FIR या शिकायत दर्ज करने के विकल्प की तलाश करें। आप अपनी स्थिति का विवरण प्रदान कर सकते हैं और तत्कालमदद का अनुरोध कर सकते हैं।
उदाहरण: यदि आप दिल्ली में हैं, तो आप दिल्ली पुलिस की आधिकारिक वेबसाइट पर जाकर ऑनलाइन शिकायत दर्ज कर सकते हैं।
पुलिस को ईमेल करें:
आप अपने स्थानीय पुलिस स्टेशन या राज्य के पुलिस मुख्यालय को अपनी स्थिति का विवरण देते हुए ईमेल भेज सकते हैं। अधिकांश पुलिस विभागोंके पास आधिकारिक ईमेल पते होते हैं जहाँ वे शिकायतें स्वीकार करते हैं।
अपने ईमेल में अपने स्थान, बंदीकरण की प्रकृति और आपके द्वारा झेले जा रहे शोषण की स्पष्ट जानकारी दें।
आपातकालीन सेवाओं के ऐप्स का उपयोग करें:
“112 इंडिया” ऐप जैसे आपातकालीन सेवाओं के ऐप डाउनलोड करें और उनका उपयोग करें, जो कि पूरे भारत में आपातकालीन प्रतिक्रिया प्रणालीहै। आप ऐप के माध्यम से SOS अलर्ट भेज सकते हैं, जो आपकी स्थिति और तत्काल सहायता की आवश्यकता की सूचना आपातकालीन सेवाओंको देगा।
राष्ट्रीय महिला आयोग (NCW):
आप राष्ट्रीय महिला आयोग (NCW) के साथ ऑनलाइन शिकायत दर्ज कर सकते हैं। उनकी आधिकारिक वेबसाइट NCW ऑनलाइन शिकायत परजाएं और अपनी शिकायत जमा करें। NCW हस्तक्षेप कर सकता है और स्थानीय अधिकारियों को कार्रवाई सुनिश्चित कर सकता है।
हेल्पलाइन्स:
हेल्पलाइनों का उपयोग करें जो तत्काल सहायता प्रदान कर सकती हैं। महिला हेल्पलाइन नंबर 181 और अन्य आपातकालीन हेल्पलाइन वाईफाईकॉल के माध्यम से पहुंची जा सकती हैं।
आप उन NGOs से भी संपर्क कर सकते हैं जो संकट में महिलाओं को समर्थन प्रदान करती हैं। इनके पास अक्सर हॉटलाइन और ऑनलाइन समर्थनप्रणालियाँ होती हैं।
सोशल मीडिया:
यदि सुरक्षित हो, तो आप ट्विटर या फेसबुक जैसे सोशल मीडिया प्लेटफॉर्म का उपयोग करके पुलिस या संबंधित अधिकारियों से संपर्क कर सकते हैं।पुलिस विभाग के आधिकारिक खातों को टैग करें और अपनी स्थिति का विवरण दें। अधिकारी अक्सर ऐसे सार्वजनिक पोस्टों पर जल्दी प्रतिक्रिया देतेहैं।
इन कदमों का पालन करके, आप सहायता और कानूनी कार्रवाई की मांग कर सकते हैं, भले ही आप बंदी हों और पुलिस स्टेशन तक शारीरिक रूप सेपहुंच नहीं सकते। सुरक्षित रहें और किसी भी उपलब्ध माध्यम का उपयोग करके मदद के लिए संपर्क करें।

Anjum

August 13, 2023

Hlo Sir me apne father ke ghar rhti hu muj Ya log khi nahi jana data me pdhay krna chati hu na muj pdhna data muj na hi job krna data agr me apne father ko Bolti hu to muj dhmki data h Ki Ya to khud manjayng Ya muj mar danga Ish me muj apne family ka sath nahi rhna h sir please mery help kijiya

Rashmi

June 29, 2024

Sir plz help me

Aastha

March 2, 2024

Can i file a case against my father who was trying to kill my mom..?

Alka Manral

April 30, 2024

The following laws can be made applicable – IPC, and the Protection of Women from Domestic Violence Act, 2005.
First, IPC
a) A charge under 498A against cruelty by husband can be made. Since it is an attempt to murder case causing grave injury or danger to the limb and life of the mother, a claim under S. 489A could also be filed. You, being a relative of your mother, can file a complaint against your father under this section.

b) You can file a case for attempt to murder under IPC Section 307. Section 307 criminalizes an attempt to murder. It is necessary to be proved that the act needs was done with intention or knowledge and the act would have in ordinary course led to death. Here, in term of punishment, the father could be subjected to imprisonment upto 10 years and a fine if no harm is caused and it could be extended to life imprisonment if hurt is caused to the mother.

c) A charge under S 324 could also be made depending on the means by which such an attempt was undertaken. If it was by dangerous weapons and means, then a charge under section 324 could also succeed.

Second, a complaint can be filed under the DV Act as well.
The DV Act covers physical abuse within its ambit. Since the act here endangers the life of the mother causing physical abuse, it would constitute domestic violence under Section 3 of the Act.
You having the knowledge or reason to believe that such an offense has been committed (Section 4) can approach a Police officer, Protection Officers or Service Provider or Magistrate. The father could be subjected to restriction orders, or monetary relief, or compensation among other reliefs.

Alka Manral

May 21, 2024

Roshni mishra

March 23, 2024

Meri sadi mp khandwa 2020 m huyi h mere sath sadi m dhoka hua muje bad m pata chala ki pati sharab peeta h maine sadi se pahle aur mere ghar Walo ne puchha tha sabhi log jhuth bol diye ab sharab pikar mujhe ulta sidha bolata h pati mere mata pita bhai sabko gali deta h muje bhi gaki deta h sas sas bataya to wo bhi muje hi ulta sidha bolane lagi ki shukra h ki sirf gali deta h Marta to nhi sasur bhi muje ulta sidha bole jeth bhi bhi muje ulta sidha bola mujhe sas sasur pati aur jeth milkar mujhe pareshan kiye sas aur pati mere mata pita ko apshabd bolte hn mujhe mansik pratana dete the ews muje bete ki dusri sadi ki dhamki di thi aur muje etna jada mere pati sas aur sasur jeth ne pareshan kiya ki muje myk ana pada mujhe etn pareshan kiya ki meri tabiyat kharab ho gayi ees samay mai myke m hu saural se na koi phone ata h na koi kharch deta h mujhe par ulta sidha arop lagati h pati jeth dono sharabi hn pati ka name ashish mishra jeth Om Prakash Misha sas malti p mishra sasur gyanendra mishra h mai up aur pikar mujhe mere mata pita ko gali deta deta prayagraj se sadi mp khabdwa m huyi h mai bahut pareshan hu

Sikha

November 8, 2024

Yeh kaafi gambhir aur dukh bhara sthiti hai. Aapko yeh samajhna hoga ki aapko suraksha aur samman ka hak hai, aur agar aapke saath ghar mein atyachar ya mansik pratadna ho rahi hai, toh aapko iske khilaf kadam uthana chahiye. Yahaan kuch ahem qadam hain jo aap utha sakti hain:

Police Mein Report Dena:
Agar aapke saath hinsa, dhamki, ya mansik atyachar ho raha hai, toh sabse pehle aapko apne shehar ya ilaqe ke police station mein report deni chahiye. Aap apni suraksha ke liye yeh qadam zaroor uthaiye.

Protection Order ya Restraining Order Ka Anurodh Karna:
Police report ke saath-saath, aap court se protection order ya restraining order ki bhi maang kar sakti hain. Yeh order aapke pati aur unke parivar ke logo ko aapse door rehne ka adesh deta hai.

Mahila Aayog ya Mahila Kalyan Sangathan se Sampark Karna:
Bharat mein kai mahila aayog aur kalyan sansthan hain jo aise mamlon mein madad karte hain. Aap unse sampark karke kanooni aur manovaigyanik madad le sakti hain.

Kanuni Salah Lena:
Aapko ek wakil ya kanooni salaahkar se sampark karna chahiye jo aapko yeh bata sakein ki aapke hak kya hain aur aapko kaise kanooni tareeqe se aage badhna chahiye.

Parivar ka Samarthan Lena:
Aapne apne ghar walon ka samarthan liya hai, jo ki acha hai. Unke saath bane rahiye aur unka sahara lijiye.

Alimony aur Maintenance Ki Maang:
Agar aap apne maike mein reh rahi hain aur aapka pati aapko koi kharch nahi de raha, toh aap kanooni tareeqe se unse alimony ya maintenance ki maang kar sakti hain.

Varsha kumari

April 27, 2024

मैने अपने घर पर अपने माँ पिता को बताया ☹️सब तो वो मेरा साथ नहीं देते अपनी बदनामी के डर से बोलते है जैसे भी है तुझे इसके ही साथ रेहना है वरना हमारी समाज में बदनामी होगी की बेटी के साथ ये हुआ मायके में पड़ी है प्लीज मेरी मदद कीजिये मुझे मेरा हस्वेन्ड मारता है ब्लेकमैल करता है टोर्चर करता है मुझे उसने जला दिया पर्गनेन्सि में भी उसने मेरा साथ नहीं दिया मूझे बहुत ज्यादा टोर्चर किया दहेज के लिए बाईक के लिए फोर्स किया मुझे मेन फोर्स कि गोली दी और जबरदस्ती सम्बन्ध बनाने की कोशिश करी अब मैं अपने मायके आ ग ई तो मैरे पापा को फोन करके उल्टा सीधा धमकी दे रहा है प्लीज हेल्प मी

Alka Manral

May 23, 2024

सबसे पहले, आपको एक एनजीओ से संपर्क करना चाहिए या राष्ट्रीय महिला आयोग की हेल्पलाइन (निम्नलिखित विवरण दिए गए हैं), जो आपको आपकी समस्या के बारे में मार्गदर्शन करेगा। उनसे बात करने के बाद, आप सीधे पुलिस स्टेशन जा सकते हैं, या तो आप अपने सास-ससुर आपको नहीं रहने देने और आपके साथ हो रही अन्य परेशानियों के संबंध में एफआईआर दर्ज करा सकते हैं, या पुलिस अधिकारियों से मदद मांग सकते हैं ताकि आपको “सुरक्षा अधिकारी” को नियुक्त करने में मदद मिले, सुरक्षा अधिकारी को नियुक्त करने का एक और तरीका राष्ट्रीय/राज्य महिला आयोग से संपर्क करना है, जो आपको क्षेत्र-वार सूची प्रदान करेगा जिसमें उपलब्ध सुरक्षा अधिकारीयों की सूची शामिल होगी। यह सुरक्षा अधिकारी आपके मामले में आपका मार्गदर्शन करेगा और आपका अधिकार है कि आप एक महिला अधिकारी की मांग करें। यह सुरक्षा अधिकारी आपको आपके कानूनी अधिकारों के बारे में सूचित करेगा, आपके कोर्ट प्रक्रिया के दौरान आपका समर्थन करेगा, आपकी सुरक्षा के लिए आवश्यक उपाय का विवरण तैयार करेगा, और आप अदालत से जिसे आप मांग कर रहे हैं, उसे लेने में आपकी मदद करेगा, आप या आपके बच्चे को यदि कोई चोट लगी हो तो उन्हें और/या आपको मेडिकल सहायता प्रदान करेगा, यह सुनिश्चित करेगा कि आपको कानूनी समर्थन, परामर्श, मेडिकल सुविधाएँ, आश्रय स्थलों आदि की मदद प्रदान करने वाले सेवा प्रदाताओं से संपर्क किया जाए।
सुरक्षा अधिकारी के पास जाने के बाद, वे आपको जिस क्षेत्र में आप निवास करते हैं या आपके सास-ससुर निवास करते हैं या उस क्षेत्र में घटित होने वाली घरेलू हिंसा की रिपोर्ट मैजिस्ट्रेट को दर्ज करने में आपकी मदद करेंगे। इस रिपोर्ट में आपने जितनी भी समस्याओं का सामना किया है, उसके साथ-साथ आपकी मांग के सभी मुद्दे शामिल होंगे; आप इस आवेदन की एक मुफ्त प्रति खुद रख सकते हैं और सुरक्षा अधिकारी आपकी इसमें मदद करेंगे। इस मांग की प्रति की एक प्रति को भी उस क्षेत्र के पुलिस अधिकारी को भेज दी जानी चाहिए, इसे सुनिश्चित करना होगा सुरक्षा अधिकारी के द्वारा। आवेदन को माजिस्ट्रेट को दाखिल किया जाने के बाद, एक सुनवाई की तारीख तय की जानी चाहिए, या तो आप और/या आपके सुरक्षा अधिकारी द्वारा।
आपके सुरक्षा अधिकारी की नियुक्ति की प्रक्रिया और आपको अन्य कानूनी सहायता प्रदान करने के लिए संसाधन निम्नलिखित हैं:
राष्ट्रीय महिला आयोग हेल्पलाइन: 7827-170-170
एएसके फाउंडेशन संकट हेल्पलाइन (एनजीओ): +918793088814
घरेलू हिंसा हेल्पलाइन: 181

Mukesh Kumar

June 16, 2024

मेरी बेटी अपने ससुराल में है जहां लगभग 10 दिन से उसकी तबीयत ज्यादा खराब है उसके उसके ससुराल वाले उसे डॉक्टर से दिखाने नहीं जा रहे हैं।
मेरी बेटी काफी परेशान है मुझे डर है कि कहीं मेरी बेटी के साथ वे लोग कोई अनहोनी ना कर दें।

Chandni

August 28, 2022

Mere husband ek saal pehle mujse jhut bol k gaon gae gaon mei shadi kiya Dusri aurat k sath reh Raha hai mere sasural Wale aur mere husband Puri family muje maari hai case karne gai koi case nhi liya chawki mei family matter bol k return bhej diye

Nyaaya

September 5, 2022

Your husband has committed offence under section 494 of Indian Penal Code when he has married to another woman whereas previously he married you, and his family is liable under section 498A of Indian Penal Code when they have beaten you. When police officers are not writing down the FIR you may approach the magistrate under Section 198A of Criminal Procedure Code where he will direct the police officers to write your report and will proceed further.

Suneeta yadav

October 3, 2022

Ma’am phir aapne kya Kiya?

Saloni

June 16, 2024

Mere jeth or jethani meri saas ko bahut pareshan krte h unko jan se marne ki dhamkiya dete h or kal to unhe dhaka bhi de diya bahar raste m or hume gar se bahar nikal under sakal lga di meri saas mera pati or hume tino unse bhut pareshan h unki job h to pesho ka pawar dikhate h pls help me

Malathi Joshi

September 4, 2022

My husband beats me and harasses me

Nyaaya

September 5, 2022

You can file a domestic violence complaint following the steps given in the explainer above.

Amir shaikh

September 9, 2022

wife filed false complaint against me under domestic violence. she want i need to settle in her hometown with her parents so she use to go to her hometown and not coming back to my home. Now she is there with her parents since last 9 months and now i sent legal notice then she filed false complaint against me. what is solution

Nyaaya

September 19, 2022

If a false case is registered by a wife on her husband than two things can be done, namely, at first to defend yourself and wait for the judgement from the court or to file a counter case on your wife. Both can be further explained. If you are ready for defence (husband), then at first you require to safeguard yourself and family from being arrested on false allegations by filing or getting an anticipatory bail or any other such thing that totally depends on the situation at that time. Further one need to collect as many proves as possible to protect themselves for example call records, mails, photographs, messages, statements of neighbours and localities and many such things. Collecting evidence on not taking dowry and that the wife has moved out from the bond of marriage without any valid reason. The evidence will help during anticipatory bail or on getting notice of bail from the court.
You can even file a complaint on the grounds of Restitution of Conjugal Rights RCR, if the wife has left the husband’s place without any valid reasons and before she comes back the husband can lay down various conditions too for peaceful living.
Section 120B of Indian Penal Code 1860, talks about punishment for criminal conspiracy, where if there is a false case registered then the husband can file a case against his wife under this section as her intentions are to commit a crime against you.

Anjali kapoor

September 22, 2022

May husband beate. Me 1 day back that i god my ear membnare perforated and i am unable to hear from left ear .i have got bruises over neck and face

Nyaaya

September 26, 2022

Thank you for contacting Nyaaya. We are so sorry to learn about your situation. Here are some steps you can take:

You or anyone on your behalf, can approach the authorities listed below to file a complaint against any domestic violence that you have been facing:

Police
Go to the Police Station

Protection Officer
Approach the Protection Officer

National and State Commissions for Women

Approach the National/State Commission for Women

• Monitoring and expediting the investigations being led by the police.
• Providing counselling or a hearing before the NCW, so that the dispute can be resolved between the two parties.
• Constituting an Inquiry Committee which makes spot inquiries, examines witnesses, collects evidence and submits the report with recommendations regarding domestic violence.

Jancy

September 23, 2022

My dad was working as a driver cum technician to a person in my village in his water purification plant.
The owner failed to pay dad’s salary and delayed almost for two years.
There is no proof to show the police that is maintained in the water plant. All most 6 laks he was supposed to pay out of which he paid in small amount each month in total of Rs 1,40,000. Balance amount is cheating now and not ready to settle the amount. Inspite of all these he has given multiple complaints against dad stating false allegations.

We are helpless now. Dad’s literally worried about it. Being a middle class family it’s a huge amount for us.

Can you suggest me if we could do something about it.
Email: jancyp15@gmail.com

Nyaaya

September 29, 2022

Tank you for writing to Nyaaya and sharing your concerns with us. Here are some steps you can take:
1. First and foremost, send a detailed legal notice to your employer mentioning all the reasons why you are aggrieved. It is recommended that you send this legal notice within 90 days from the lapse of salary payment.
2. If you earned less than Rs 18,000 a month you can approach the labour commissioner to seek redressal.
3. Cases that come to the labour court must be decided upon within a three-month period. If the matter is not resolved by the labour commissioner the same can be pursued in a court of law by the employee.
4. If your salary is more than Rs 18,000 a month then you can pursue the matter in a civil court.

Free Legal Aid
If your current annual income is less than Rs. 3 Lac or if you are a senior citizen having annual income less than Rs. 4 Lac then you can avail free legal services in New Delhi (to see the limit for your state,follow this link https://nalsa.gov.in/services/legal-aid/eligibility

You can apply for free legal aid either offline or online. You can fill up the ready-made form/application form that is available at your nearest Legal Services Authority and submit the same at either the Authority physically, or post the application to the Authority.
You can even make an application in writing on a simple piece of paper with the necessary details such as your name, gender, residential address, employment status, nationality, whether SC/ST (with proof in support), income per month (with affidavit), the case for which legal aid is required, reason for seeking legal aid, etc. and submit it physically or send by post.
Another option is to send the application online i.e. by email to NALSA (at nalsa-dla@nic.in), or through the online application form available online at NALSA’s website by going on the ‘Online Application’ Link on the Home Page, along with uploading necessary documents.

Also, the New Delhi legal services Authority provides solution to legal problems through 24×7 Telephone Helpline No. 1516. Our Legal Services Advocates hear the grievances and give suitable legal advice to the needy.

Sushma

October 4, 2022

Hello, my name is sushma i have went through domestic violence from my parents from 21 years i am 24 i am going through a lot i went through depression last 4 years they caged me in room in our room my brother he try to violates me every time harassment, threat everything they are emotinally and mentally abusing me every day i said if you beat me means i am going to file complaints so they left that concept. But emotionally and mentally i am going thorugh a lot they caged me in 4 years

Nida shaikh

June 6, 2024

hello sushma…kaise h tum ab ..i feel very sad ..abhi apne kya kiye?

Alka Manral

July 9, 2024

Firstly, you can contact the Women Helpline number, which is 7827170170. Secondly, various legal provisions can be applied to this situation.
1. Section 323 of the IPC – If your parents are subjecting you to violence then the complaint can be made under Section 323 of the IPC.
2. Section 344 of the IPC – If your parents have confined you for 4 years then the complaint can be made under Section 344 of the IPC.
3. Sction 357 of the IPC – If you’re being physically assaulted and confined by your parents, you can file a complaint under Section 357 of the IPC.
4. Section 3 of the THE PROTECTION OF WOMEN FROM DOMESTIC VIOLENCE ACT – if your parents and brother are abusing physically and mentally then the complaint can be made under Section 3 of the said act.
Additionally, you can also write a magistrate under Section 12 of the PROTECTION OF WOMEN FROM DOMESTIC VIOLENCE ACT, for relief.

Daisy sharma

October 9, 2022

Mere husband mujhe mere bete ki vajah se marte hai bhot baar maar chuke h vo mujhe careless smjhte h aur kal to mera glla itni jor se dba k jhanjoda mujhe jaan se maar dete upr se meri saas kehti h krle jo krna hai me kya kru mujhe smjh ni aarha jab bhi mere bete ko chhot lgti h mera pati mujhe maarta hai

Nyaaya

October 25, 2022

Suneeta

August 6, 2023

Hello Sir/Mam, 15 saal se upar hogaya mere father aur sisters bhi Kai baar mujhe marte hein. Sister marti hein to kuch nahi karte. Unki side lete hein. Kai baar mujhe jaan se marne ki dhamki dete hein. Ek baar police complaint ki thi, par kuch nahi hua. Isi ka wo log faiyda uthate hein. Pls tell kya kiya jaa sakta he. Mujhe mansik taklif aur ghutan hoti he Yaha. Kai baar suicide karne koshish ki he Maine.

Mohd mohsin Ali ahmad

November 1, 2022

Meri wife mere saath bahut galat karti hai hmsesha yahi bola karti hai ki duniya ke admi Mar rhe hai tum nhi mqr rhe ho aur itni gandi gandi bat karti ahi ki kya batye hm aap logo ko hm soche the ki khaki admi hi galat hote hai duniya me magr mera aisi biwi ke saath Pala pada hua hai ki hm to ikdum kya batye apko aur humeha yahi kaha karti hai ki aap office jate hai to waha jake ayyashi akrte hai aur humne aaj bike liye hai finance par usi par hu dimag kharab karke baidi hui thi aur 3 bache the iske pet me wo bhi isne meri marji ke khilaf Gira diya hai dawa humse gusse Garmin me Manga ka plz help kare meri

Nyaaya

November 11, 2022

हमें आपसे सहानभूति है। क्या आप अपनी बीवी के खिलाफ कंप्लेंट करना चाहते हैं?

Yukti sawhney

September 28, 2023

My father beats my mother unnecessarily and he even does not do any work and is always at home. My mother is a working woman and she only see all the expenditure of the house. I am in college.

Alka Manral

September 2, 2024

To know about how to file complaints against domestic violence, click here: https://nyaaya.org/legal-explainers/crimes-violence/family-related-violence/domestic-violence/

Lalit

January 27, 2024

मेरी गर्लफ्रेंड की जबरदस्ती सादी कराई जा रही है 3 दिन बाद सादी है मुझे क्या करना चाहिए लोकल पुलिस कुछ नही करेगी इस लिए आप बताओ क्या करू में

Vaishali Pareek

June 18, 2023

Hi Sir,
Meri shadi ko hue abhi 2 month bhi nhi hue ladka gali deta hai aur baat baat par hath uthata hai ek baat choti se behas hui usne mujhse bola ki abhi akar marunga madarchod usne shadi k 6 din phle bhi road par thappad mara tha ab mujhe uske sath nahi rhna hai uski badtameeji aur badhti chalo jar rhi hai har bar humilate karna torcher krna mere ghr walo ko pareshan karna uski maa bhi gali bakti hai haramjadi haramjjadi khti hai aur yeh hath uthata hai gali deta hai meri zindagi barbaad kar di isne aur mujhe ab samajh nahi aa rha hai kya karu mujhe iske khilaaf complaint karni karni please meri help kare mai hath jodkar help mang rhi hu meri zindagi barbaad kar di isne iski bhi whi ehsaas hona cahiye jo mujhe hua jab isne mere upar hath uthaya shadi k 6 din phle

Sikha

November 8, 2024

Agar aap ek aurat hain aur aapko lagta hai ki domestic violence ka koi case hua hai, ho raha hai, ya hone wala hai, toh aap apne najdeeki police station jaake F.I.R (First Information Report) file kar sakti hain.
Agar police bole ki ye case unki jurisdiction mein nahi aata, toh unse Zero-FIR register karne ko bolo. Zero-FIR ka matlab hai ki aap kisi bhi police station mein FIR file kar sakte hain aur baad mein usse sahi police station transfer kar diya jayega.
Police aapka incident note karegi jab aap FIR file karenge aur aapse sign karne ko bolegi. Kripya karke double-check karein jo information unhone likhi hai, aur ensure karein ki koi galti na ho.
Agar aapko male policeman se baat karne mein uncomfortable feel hota hai, toh aap female officers ki assistance maang sakte hain.
Police ke alawa, aap protection officer, service provider ya Magistrate se bhi madad le sakte hain.
Online FIR
Agar aapke state mein online FIR file karne ki facility hai, toh aap online FIR bhi file kar sakte hain. Nahi toh, National Commission for Women website par jaake apni complaint file kar sakte hain.
Receipt number se aapko file number, user ID aur password mil jayega 10 din ke andar, jab zarurat padegi.

Legal Aid Helpline numbers
Yahan kuch helpline numbers hain jo aapki madad kar sakte hain.
Multiple Action Research Group (MARG)
(011) 26497483 / 26496925
Delhi Police HELPLINE
1091
National Human Rights Commission
(011) 23385368/9810298900
Women’s Cell, Delhi Police
(011) 24673366 / 4156 / 7699
Counselling Services on Women in Distress – Organised by Delhi Police
3317004
Delhi Commission for Women
(011) 23379181/ 23370597

Anoopa patel

July 20, 2023

Sar meri jethani mujhse roj daily ladti hai jhagada Karti hai main abhi tak thi bhi nahin 12 sal se main bahar hun Apne bacche ko padha rahi hun mere husband nahin khatm ho chuki fir bhi meri jethani mujhse Aisa lagaye rahti hai abhi present time meri SAS ki tabiyat bahut kharab ho gai thi isliye mujhe aana pada unki death Ho gai isliye abhi main ruki hun fir bhi usko dekha nahin ja Raha galat galat exam Laga rahi hai aur sar gandi gandi galiyan de rahi hai pareshan kar rahi hun kah rahi hai to yahan se nikal ja kyon ruki yah karvane ke liye ruki hai vah karvane ke liye ruki main bahut pareshan hun sar

Anoopa patel

July 20, 2023

Sar main anokha Patel main apni sasural ki jethani se bahut jyada pareshan bahut hi jyada pahle to mere Pati khatm Ho Gaya Mera Chhota sa baby Apne man baap ke pass rahakar uski dekhbhal kar rahi hun fir bhi log mujhe sapne se jeene nahin de rahi jethani galiyan deti hai gande gande ilzaam lagati rahti hai jo ki sarjan time mein a rahti bhi nahin 12 sal se bahar rahti sab kuchh Apne bacche ko padha rahe the fir bhi yah log mujhe jeene nahin de rahe mere piche pade hue meri jameen udhar diya sab hathiyane ko baithi hai sar please sir help me main bahut pareshan hun sar main kya Karun meri sari sampatti mere bacche ki Apne upar karvana chah rahi hun mujhe Ghar se bahar nikalna chah rahi hun please sar help MI

Anoopa patel

July 20, 2023

Sar meri jethani meri sari jameen hathiyana chah Rahi hai to main kya Karun mere husband nahin hai sar mera ek baccha hai Bus

Anoopa Patel

July 20, 2023

Sar main Apne man baap ke pass rah ke apne bacche ko padha rahi thi aati thi jaati thi jyada din nahin rukti thi meri sans mujhe nahin rahti thi kahati thi ki tu beta bahar hi rah kar bacche ko padha Lo ab meri SAS ki tabiyat bahut kharab ho gai thi mujhe aana pada meri SAS ki death Ho gai sar ab main ruki Hui Hun to meri jethani Ko nahin dekha ja raha hai vah kah rahi hai tu yahan Apne gaon ja apne ghar ja gandi gandi gali de rahi hai gandi gandi galiyan de rahi hai gande gande ilzaam Laga rahe hain bahut pareshan kar rahi hai sar din Raat ladai Karti rahti hai गाली-गलौज Karti rahti hai

balwinder

July 22, 2023

sir, khet ki wajah sa ladayi ho gyi aur us veakti na fake medical certificate banwa fir hona ka 26 dino kabad ki mera dant tuta ha aur police uska sath de rahi ha kiya is sa ham par case file ho sakta ha

Chandni

July 31, 2023

Hello mam mera nam chandi h mere sasural wale mere husband ko mere khilaf krte h pichle sal bhut mara tha gas tk khol di thi jlane k lie pdosi n bchaya tha coplaint ki thi pr maafi mng kr le gae ab fir se ma bhno ki wjh se roj ldte h maafiya mbgwate h mene mngi bhi jesa khte h krti hu fir bhi chodne ki dhmki dere h kuch dino phle sasural wale yha myke aae the m myke aai hui ki ldai n ho riste ache ho pr sasural wale yha aae aur mar pit krke gae meri mumny k bhut chot lgi pr ab wo khte h ki apbi family se maafi manwa warna whi reh hmesha k lie mere 3 bcche h ek hone wala h dilivery date bhi pasa h aur pesa bhejna to door block kardiya h apni bat keh kr
Wo phle jo coplaint ki thi uski fir ki copy bhi fek di h mere husband n plz btaie kya karu mere ma bap har bar beti k ghr smjh kr maafi mngte h plz tell me kya karu

Huma

August 5, 2023

Maine domestic violence case kiya hai but husband gayab hai aur uski family ne ghar bandh rakha hai agar woh hearing mei nahi aye toh kya hoga!

Taniya

August 18, 2023

My father beats me and my sister, I’m 24 ànd she is 28 we both financially dependent on him . But the environment is not bearable .

Kiran Chaudhary

September 12, 2023

Meri sister ki saas aur sasural ke log usse bahot marte hai aur galiya dete hai usse ghar pr mammy papa ko bhi batane nhi dete hai aur Dahej ke liye bhi bhot bolte hai

Gulab Sanjeev Kumar

September 21, 2023

Am so fed up of my wife,s torture …. since ages … Did left my house so many times …..but nothing worked … Because she needs drinks and she consumes Gutka ….. And is very abusive …. Sometimes ….even …..she darts to hit …..she stands up to hit holding the pressure cooker or the pan ……did even send a complaint. About her to the local police station … Pls help guide and suggest what I can do ……I am 53 years old and with many medical issues
Regards

Gruhesh Sulegaon

October 15, 2023

Mein Maharashtra se hu abhi Ahmedabad mein job karta hu Meri wife Meri maa ko geli deti hai aur marne ki dhamki deti hai, bolati hai ki Tumare gaon jao yaha mat raho torture karto hai pura ghar ka kam Meri maa karti hai phir meri wife har din torutre krti hai ye nhi kiya wo nhi kiya. Mere papa nhi hai meri maa ka gaon mein koi nhi, mein kya kar sakta hu please reply.

Harika

October 23, 2023

I’m a female of 25 years old and I’m a working professional. I’m currently living with my mother where she is being Narcissistic as involving in every matters and doesn’t giving me space and keeping on controlling me and my things as per her liking. She neither tried to understand me nor trusted me. She keeping on doing the things which making me more traumatized by verbal and physical abuse. My father didn’t cared me if I being okay emotionally and everytime he believed the stories made my mother against me. He neither questioned as is it true? Nor consoled me…

Recently I have had enough trauma and I dared to speak that I’m moving out and live by my own and help you out financially. But they refused and kept me locked. My mother immediately called her brother (maternal uncle) and he immediately landing into my house dragged my hand and hold on tightly back of my hair and neck and threatened me. What making me more painful is my mother stood there and watched as if nothing is happening like it’s normal thing to do. After that I dared to cal the police to help me to move out my parents house but the police came and listened to mother stories and barely talked with me even though I showed them the bruises I had. The police left saying I need immediate treatment from psychologist.

I don’t know whom to approach and seek for help. Even the law is not helping me even though I’m a major. I’m starving myself as I don’t want to live with trauma and abuse. I have sleep problems and when I think of these abusive times I will get a breathing problem.

Please help me to move out from abusive toxic mother’s house. PLEASE!

Riya

October 24, 2023

Hi my name is Riya and I’m 17 yrs old my parents are very toxic and abusive they use to beat me and my brother who is 11yrs old a lot. If I say something against them they say that they will make me marry a guy and will not further continue my studies. They also bully me sexually as I am a little chubby(60kgs) they say that I’ve some sexual contact with my guy friends which is not true they are my friends and they treat me like their kid/sister. Iam preparing for neet and they always make me feel down by saying that you’ll not able to crack it. Right now at this point I am fed up with all this shit and thinking of ending up my life it’s only my friends who make me feel happy otherwise iam feeling suicidal at home all time

Ansh

October 31, 2023

I am married for last 5 yrs. My wife and her parents forced me for the marriage and one day took me to the court without my knowledge and registered the marriage in court.. where nobody was present from my side.. after 1 yr my family came to know.. and then they decided to public this marriage with a formal function. After marriage my wife started misbehaving with me and my family and she state at my place only for one month. After that on her demand i shifted to the different city and left my old widow mother alone. I used to work abroad. My bank details.. and ATM card everything was kept at home and she used to transfer money to her parents and her brothers account.. spend unnecessarily… As much as she can. Whenever I used to come home she used to torture me and asked me to go back and join back early. We both were not physically active because everytime I tried she used toh say I am not interested. She never gets feeling. She is a lesbian I came to know later. She used to torture me when I used to talked to my mother or sisters. Now she asked me toh shift to her parents place. I got afraid that when I am staying at my place my wife and her family torturing me so much what will happen if I shift to her parents house permanently. I will become a slave. When I said no she called her brother took all the stuff..car.. scooty.. everything.. vacant the flat and went to her parents place.. I was out of station when she did this..when I came home.. nothing was there.. Finally after 5 yrs when I got fed-up I filed a divorce case against her. After getting this news she put all the false allegations against me and my family saying me and my family tortured her everytime.. but she was always staying in a different city. I used to stay abroad.. my sister’s and mother is staying in a different city.. my wife never stayed at my parents house. How can they torture her. She said we demanded dowry.. and her father gave me lakhs of rupees in dowry. She always forced me to buy everything on her name and I also didn’t deny just wanted to make her happy. But she took everything and now saying that her parents gave money for all this. I have full statement showing that i bought each and everything. Just to demand a big amount of allemony she connected my name with my colleague and she is making issue of this matter to demand allemony. There is no proof which shows that me and my colleague are in relationship.. she is just my known and helped me few times. My wife has put so many allegations on me after doing all these things with me and after taking everything. I have lost my job too because my wife send a letter to my office stating all these allegations and without any enquiry my office didn’t want to take chance they terminated me. I have no job.. no money.. nothing to stay. And now also she is filing so many cases against me. What should I do.

Harini shree

November 5, 2023

Father is always beats me, and always says that you are a girl girl
I am 17 years old, but he beats me always, I don’t like him, please arrest him.

Jyoti verma

November 12, 2023

My family abuse me ever day they beat me they tread me to killed me I don’t want live with them please help me

Divotsna

November 15, 2023

Hello

I live in Gurgaon and this is regarding my cousin. he is an alcoholic and he beats up his wife and my aunt everyday. and my aunt is an old lady 66 years old. She tried to file a complain against him. however the authorities are not taking the complaints seriously. He broke my aunts hand and doesn’t let his wife go to work. He does not work or do anything. He starts drinking in the morning and he drinks all day. We tried helping and talking to him but he didn’t seem to understand anything.
I don’t want my name to come up but I am sick and tried of seeing this everyday.

Aliva Chatterjee

November 30, 2023

My name is Aliva Chatterjee, I am married 2nd time with my husband his name is Neeraj Das, he use to beat me very badly he doesn’t want to work he sold all my jewellery, one year back he broke my nose after drinking he beats me uses slangs to me my son and my family, I want to get rid of him please help me I am very afraid of him he may kill me and my son plz help me
7979714467 this is my number I stay in baguiati kolkata.

RAVIKUMAR

December 5, 2023

I am suffering from harrasment from my wife for the last 20 years. Few of them are: 1) She does not allow me to have my cell phone. I have to keep begging her to make call, or receive OTPs for Bank and other transactions. (2) She does not allow me to go out for a walk (3) She does not allow me to attend any Yoga class, or technical or any courses (4) She does not allow me to go for any work. All that she wants is lock me in a room whole day and night. Even after this, she accuses me having affair with someone and utter unparliamantery words. I have been tolerating this and many more for the sake of my children. Now all of them are settled abroad. As I no more can tolerate this, and cannot get out of the house, I am seeking your help please!

Alka Manral

June 10, 2024

I’m really sorry to hear about the situation you’re facing. The behavior you’ve described amounts to mental and emotional abuse, which is a serious offense under Indian law. Here are some steps you can take:
Seek Support: It’s important to reach out to friends, family, or support groups who can provide emotional support during this difficult time. You don’t have to go through this alone.
Consult a Lawyer: Consider consulting with a lawyer who specializes in family law or domestic violence. They can provide legal advice on your options and guide you through the process of seeking help.
File a Complaint: You have the right to seek protection from abuse. You can file a complaint with the police or approach a local women’s helpline or counseling center for assistance. The police can take action against your wife under various provisions of the Indian Penal Code and the Protection of Women from Domestic Violence Act, 2005.
Obtain a Protection Order: You can apply for a protection order under the Protection of Women from Domestic Violence Act, 2005, which can restrain your wife from committing any further acts of abuse and provide you with necessary relief.
Consider Counseling: Family counseling or mediation may also be helpful in resolving conflicts and improving communication within the family. However, if the abuse is severe, counseling may not be effective, and your safety should be the priority.
Document Evidence: Keep records of any incidents of abuse, including dates, times, and details of what happened. This documentation can be useful if you decide to take legal action.
Remember, you have the right to live free from abuse and violence. Don’t hesitate to take steps to protect yourself and seek help from appropriate authorities and support services. You deserve to live a life of dignity and respect.

Sikha

November 8, 2024

Yash Mestry

January 4, 2024

My sister was beaten by her husband only after 2 motnhs of marraige. She then decided to leave and cam back to maiden place expecting that the husband learns from his mistake and will call her back. Instead he filed a case for divorce within 6 months and is trying to settle it without any compensation. We did not file any case against him for a year. What should be our action to safeguard my sister’s future?

Priya

April 10, 2024

ഭർത്താവിന്റെ നിരന്തര പീഡനം മൂലം മടുത്തു. എനിക്കും എന്റെ മക്കൾക്കും ജീവന് ഭീഷണിയുണ്ട്.

Alka Manral

May 31, 2024

You can file a complaint under Section 498A IPC and as per the Domestic Violence Act. You can approach any police station and file complaint for domestic violence. They will direct you to a Protection Officer who can help you further.

By filing a criminal case, the harasser would be punished for the act of violence committed with jail-time and a fine. Your lawyer must inform the Court that both the cases have been filed. A criminal case can be filed for the following reasons:
• If the harasser drives a woman to commit suicide .
• If the harasser causes or tries to cause any grave injury to the woman or danger to the life or health of a woman.
• If the harasser affects the mental health of a woman to such a degree that it is a danger to her life.
• If the harasser through any words or physical actions causes any mental stress or psychological distress to the woman.
• If the harasser forces a woman to give dowry or unlawful demand for any property or valuable security.

Alka Manral

May 30, 2024

First, record and document any type of conversation or evidence that shows that your sister has been beaten and abused by her husband. There is no limitation provided for filing a complaint under Section 12 of Protection of Women from Domestic Violence Act, 2005 and Section 498A for cruelty, so you can go ahead and file an FIR in any police station nearby. Under law, this FIR can be filed by the aggrevated woman or any of her relative.
Second, in the issue of divorce without compensation, the husband cannot refuse if the court compels him to pay unless your sister is re-married. With alimony, it is paid by the higher earning partner. So, if your sister earns more, the court will probably not award any alimony.

Rachana

February 4, 2024

Hello, I am sure of being in a position to file a police complaint.
But I want to know what happens after filing a police complaint. I cannot continue to live with my abusive husband after making a complaint as he is sure to make mine and my kids’ lives more miserable.

Alka Manral

May 30, 2024

When you appraoch the police then a DIR (Domestic Incident Report) will be filed, the police officer in charge would immediately send a report to the concerned Magistrate, and go (or depute to the spot where the offence has been committed. They investigate the facts and circumstances of the case, and if necessary, take measures for the discovery and arrest of the offender. After receiving the report, the concerned Magistrate can either Direct an investigation; Immediately proceed with a preliminary inquiry into the case; or Dispose of the case. Thereafter, an investigation and search take place after which the chargesheet is filed and then finally the trial takes place. Also section 4 of the DV Act provides anyone having information regarding domestic violence can report to the police. So it doesn’t necessarily has to be the wife.

You have the option to vacate your husband’s home. You may also seek a shelter home under the DV Act and seek maintenance from him as well.

Vaishali

February 19, 2024

Mera Pati mujhe janwaro ki Tarah Marta h or uske sb ghrwale bhi bhut marte h m bihar hu koi mujhe khana pani b nhi de raha h Pati bhi bol b nhi raha h mujhe ghr se bhar nikal diya tha fir mane 112 ki sahayta li or vo mujhe yha rehne k liye sbko bolkr gye h ki isko koi nikal ni sakta pr mujhe dar lag raha h ki y log fine esa na karde mere sath kirpaya koi sujhav de

Alka Manral

April 26, 2024

You are a victim of domestic violence, and your husband and his family members are mistreating you. You are from Bihar, and it appears that you are not being provided with food or water, and your husband is not communicating with you. You were thrown out of the house, and you sought help from the 112 emergency service, which temporarily resolved the situation. However, you are still afraid that your husband’s family members may harm you.
Here are some steps you can take to protect yourself and seek help:
Contact the local police: If you feel threatened or in danger, reach out to the local police station immediately. Explain your situation and ask for protection.
Contact a women’s helpline: Call the Women’s Helpline at 181 (Women in Distress Helpline) or 1091 (National Commission for Women Helpline) to seek help and support. They can provide guidance and assistance, including connecting you with counselors, legal aid, and shelter services.
Reach out to a local NGO or women’s organization: Many organizations work to help women in distress. Look for a local NGO or women’s organization in your area and contact them for support.
Legal recourse: Consult with a lawyer to discuss your options for legal protection, such as filing a domestic violence case under the Protection of Women from Domestic Violence Act, 2005.
Document the abuse: Keep a record of the incidents of abuse, including dates, times, and any witnesses. If possible, take photographs of any injuries and keep any medical records. This information may be useful in court.
Reach out to family and friends: If you have supportive family members or friends, contact them for help and assistance. They may be able to provide you with temporary shelter or help you access resources.
Remember, you have the right to live a life free from violence and abuse. Don’t hesitate to seek help and support from the available resources to ensure your safety and well-being.

Mitesh Jain

March 11, 2024

Hi,
My wife and her family is torturing me and my family. I am staying alone after July 2019. I am staying out of india due to my job. I have called my wife and my son in Dec 2020 in Air bubble flight during covid. She agree when i have requested so many times and again she left me in Sep. 2021 after that Me and my family lot of mental stress. It is completely domestic violence against me and my family. There are lot of things happen with me which i can’t able to explain because I don’t have that much evidence. Now her family is trying to file a complain against me for doing nothing. Please advice how can I get out from this situation. I am always thinking about suicide but i don’t want to give up. I am very tense about my parents.One time she slap me also. I am under too much depression and mental stress. I can’t able to focus in my job too. Who will help me in this situation ?
Thank You

Alka Manral

May 21, 2024

Section 13(1)(ia) of the Hindu Marriage Act,1956 allows both the wife and the husband to seek a divorce by alleging that their spouse has subjected them to cruelty after marriage. Therefore, even though there is no specific punishment for cruelty against husbands (other than the general penal provisions related to battery and assault, and IPC provisions on causing hurt/grievous hurt), the law recognises such cruelty as a ground for the husband to seek divorce. The instances that you have faced can constitute cruelty and you can file for divorce under your personal law. Further, if you want to file a police complaint, you can go to the police station and file an FIR under sections 319 to 326 (Causing hurt and grievous hurt).

Savita arya

March 20, 2024

Mairai husband roj marpit or gandi gandi gali daitai hai apni bhabhi bhai or sister kai kahanai pai mujai randi booltai makan apnai naam karwana chahtai hai jo marai father nai diya hai mujai mainai police complent bhi ki 100 per koi nahi aya roj ka kaam hai plz help me

Aastha Singhal

April 14, 2024

I have a step brother . We always treated him with love and support. As he is started growing. He used to hit me and my family members. He used to abuse all of us . My father slipped into depression because of him and we failed to help him as a result he is not with us today. Atleast away from this bad son. But now there are only girls in the home . Me my mother and my sisters . He give us rape and other bad threats and say he can kill us easily. And ask us to leave home because as per him, we are living in his house. PLEASE HELP. We all are at risk

Alka Manral

May 31, 2024

Various laws can apply to this situation:
1) Section 503 of IPC: If your step-brother is threatening you with bodily injury to scare you, or make you do something you do not want to do, yo can file a case against him for Section 503 of IPC.
2) Section 354A of IPC: If your step-brother is making sexual remarks, you can file an FIR for Section 354A of IPC.
3) Section 509 of IPC: If your step brother is trying to say any offensive words, or violates your privacy, then you can file an FIR for Section 509 of IPC.
4) Section 509B of IPC: If you are a woman from Chhattisgarh and your step brother does anything which is obscene or indecent so that he can harass you or cause annoyance or mental agony to you, then you can file an FIR for Section 509B of IPC.
5) Section 3 of The Protection of Women from Domestic Violence Act, 2005: You can file an FIR for Domestic Violence under this act. Even if you cannot report it yourself, anyone you know can also inform the police about it under Section 4 of this Act.

To file the FIR, you can approach the nearest police station. The police can also make arrangements for you to live in a shelter home away from your stepbrother, under Section 6 of the Domestic Violence Act.

Kajal

April 19, 2024

Mam mere parents meri jabarjasti saadi kara rahe h jab mene saadi k liye mana kiya to mujhe bhut buri tarah mara aur jaan se marne tk le gye the vo to vaha kuch log aa gye unhone mujhe bacha liya mam khana pina nhi dete aur jabarjasti kar rhe h inke khilaaf koi action lijiye varna me jaan de dungi apni

Alka Manral

May 29, 2024

Agar aapko jabardasti shaadi karwane ki koshish ki ja rahi hai, to aap kuch steps follow kar sakte hain:

1. Mahila Police Cell se Contact Karein: Apne shehar ki mahila police cell se sampark karein. Aapko us jagah ki details, jabardasti shaadi karwane wale vyakti ke baare mein likhit shikayat karni hogi, saath hi jagah aur tareekh bhi mention karein.
2. PWDW Act ke Tahat Domestic Violence ki Shikayat Darj Karein: Aap PWDVA, 2005 ke tahat apne mata-pita ya kisi aur parivarik sadasya ke khilaf domestic violence ka mukadma court mein darj kar sakte hain. Nyayadhish temporary restraining order jaari kar sakte hain jo aapko jabardasti shaadi se bachayega.
3.National Commission for Women se Sampark Karein: Aap apne vivahadhikar ki ulangan ke baare mein rashtriya mahila aayog mein shikayat darj kar sakte hain.
4. Vivah Ka Rad Adhikarik Taur Par Court Mein Mangwaayein: Agar shaadi ho chuki hai toh ek saal ke bhitar, aap court mein vivah ka rad mangwa sakte hain. Aapke vivahadhikar ka durupyog ya dabav ke karan, ek nullity decree ke tahat shaadi rad ho sakti hai. Parivarik nyayalay aise mamle sunne aur samapt karne ke liye sthapit kiye gaye hain.

Yeh kadam uthakar aap apne vivahadhikar ko bacha sakte hain aur apne swatantra chunav ka anubhav kar sakte hain. Agar aapko kisi bhi prakar ki madad ya salah chahiye, toh kripya ek mahila salahkaar se bhi sampark kar sakte hain.

Taniya

May 12, 2024

mai apne pati or apne sasural se pareshaan hu please m kya karu mere pati mujhe maarte h or gaali dete h dhamki bhi dete darate h meri saas ne mere bade bete ko khud k pass rakh liya h mere pass usko rehne nhi deti or mere pati kayi tarah k nayi k aadi h or is Karan wo kaam nhi karte humara kharcha nhi uthate isliye Maine unka ghar chod Diya h mai apne saath bade bete ko laai thi magar mere sasur ji usko le gayi mujhe un logo k sath nhi rehna mujhe bas mera bada beta chahiye or m nhi chahti ki m un logo k sath rahu or sasural Wale k wajah se m pareshan hu m kya karu.

Neha

May 17, 2024

Namaskar mera naam neha h mere husband ka naam rajesh h. Usne mujhe bohot pareshan kiya hua h. Mujhe mentally Tourcher krta h. Marta bhi h. Me usko bolti hu police m complaint krugi to bolta h kr de mard jate h jail me. Koi bat nhi jail chala jauga pr waha se aane k baad tujhe or tere ghar walo ko nhi choruga.. Fir sida murder kr k jail jauga. Mujhe gali deta h mere ghar walo ko gali deta h qki m ek garib family se hu isko paise wagera ki support nhi kr pate mere parents isliye jada pareshaan kiya hua h. In sb ladai jagdo k chalte mene 2bar khudkhushi krne ki bhi koshish ki h. Meri 4 saal ki beti h. Uspe bhi in chizo ka asar ho rha h. M kya kru please batao. M usko divorce bhi nhi de sakti. Qki mera family garib h wo mera kharcha nhi utha sakte. Mujhe koi support nhi krta. Inhi sb tension se mujhe migraine bhi ho gya h. M mentally or physically bahut suffer kr rhi hu. Please reply 🙏

Sikha

November 8, 2024

Humein khed hai ki aapko inn paristhitiyon se guzarna pad raha hai lekin ghabraiyen mat kyunki hum inn kathinaiyon ke liye aapko samaadhan ki or margdarshan karenge. Aapneeche diye adhikaariyon se sampark karke iss gharelu hinsa ke khilaaf shikaayat darj kar sakte hai.

Police – Aap apne ilaake ke police station ya kisi anya police station mein jaakar gharelu hinsa ki shikaayat IPC ke dhaara 498A ke sahaayata se darj kara sakte hai. Police DIR/FIR darj karegi aur/ya aapko jile ke Protection Officer ke paas bhejegi jo aage aapki sahaayata kar sakenge.

Protection Officer – Protection Officer aapko DIR darj karne, aapko maudrik/aarthik rahat, suraksha aadi prapt karne ke liye nyaayalaya mein aavedan karne mein madad karenge.

National and State Commission for Women – Rashtriya Mahila Aayog (NCW) ek rashtriya star ka sarkaari sangathan hai jo mahilaon dwara saamna kiye jaane wale muddo, jaise gharelu hinsa, dahej utpeedan, balaatkaar aadi se sambandhit shikaayato ki jaanch karne ke liye sashakt hai. Aap helpline number 1091 par call karke nahi toh ncw@nic.in par email bhejkar ya online shikaayat darj karke unse sampark kar sakte hai. Kyunki NCW New Delhi mein sthit hai, issliye aap apne rajya mein sthit Rajya Mahila Aayog (State Commission for Women) se sampark kar sakte hai taaki who aapki madad kare.

Humein aasha hai ki isse aapko apne kathinaiyon ka samaadhaan mila ho.

Arun

May 17, 2024

Mam meri story bhot lambi hai but sort main aapko batata hun main main healthy ladka koi issue nahi tha mujhe life kuch kar nahi raha tha fir maine dost banaya ussne bola life mahant karo aagye chalo life mujhe uski baat theek laga banda sahi bol raha hai fir maine aapne he ek frnd se bola job ka liya to papa ko bola tha jane ka 1 week ka time mila tha unhone bola bataunga last day per bolte kucd chala ja fir emotional drama kiya mummy pareshaan karne lage fir jane nahi diya fir maine fir se try kiya kuch month baad jane ka liya job ka liya banglore but uss time bhi mere padosi na mere papa ko bata diya fir se jane nahi diya 2-3 bar try karne ka baad mujhe ek job per lagya tha papa koi dost ka office main salary de nahi rahe the bolte the de rahe de rahe but kuch dete nahi the papa ko bola vo bhi bolte dekh raha hun dekh raha hun jab maine fir try kiya ek dam se meri tabiyat kharab ho gayi fever fir meri family na mera ilaaj nahi karwaya bolne lage drama kar raha hun meri halat aur kharb ho gayi paise bachne ka chakar main ulti seedhee medicine dete the papa ka jaan pachaan (bhot jada doctor se police Government se BJP main hai to unke) to papa doctor ko call kiya mujhe aise ulti seedhee medicine dete rahe tha kuch aur dete koi aur medicine mujhe pagal bane ka plan bana rahe the jisse ki ghar bahar na ja sako zindagee main aur aaj ki date main medicine le raha hun ruk nahi sakta kuch nahi sakta hun jab bolta hun doctor ka pass chalo medicine ka liya bolte hai dekh raha hun vo dekhna aata he nahi hai meri call sunte hai mere peeche log laga rake agar meri koi help karta hai papa aapni power dikha kar usse peeche kar dete hai aur mera ek dost hai usske peeche pade hai kal bol rahe the agar tujhe kuch tere dost ka murder Karva dunga agar tere ko kuch bhi hua aur bola kisi aur na bhi kiya to main ussi ko marunga matlb unhe he kisi ko bolke karwaya to fir bolenge ki dost na kiya hai aur beech main meri shaadi karne ki khosis kar rahe the mujhe marte the pareshaan karte hai agar main bolna start karta hun to bolte hai ghar bak dunga tu ja aapni maa ko leke mere ghar fir bolte tera uppper case karunga aur tera dost per ki ussne mujhe badkaya hai aise he chalta raha to main khud ko he maar dunga aur aapne papa ka name mere letter likh jaunga but yea bhi jo ladki mujhe pyaar karti shadi ka plan uske sapne khatam ho jayenge main karo samjh nhi aa raha hai mujhe pagal bana rahe medicine de de kar kabhi kuch karte hai kabhi kuch khane juice main mila kar pata nahi kya dete 2-4 bar meri tabiyat kharab hua hai main pareshaan hun mentally and physically.

Sikha

November 8, 2024

Dear Sir,

Main aapko yeh patra likh rahi hoon taaki aapke saamne jo gambhir samasyaayein hain, jinhe aapne apni recent communication mein vyakt kiya tha, unhe address kar sakoon. Aapke pita ke dwara kiye gaye atyachar, emotional blackmail, sharirik hinsa ki dhamkiyan, aur bina aapki anumati ke psychotropic substances ka prashasan aapke kanuni adhikaron ka gambhir ullanghan hai, jo kai kanoonon, jaise ki aapraadhik aur manavadhikar kanoon ke tehat aata hai. Main aapko uplabdh kanooni upaaye aur suraksha ke liye aapko jo kadam uthane chahiye, unka vivaran dungi.

Vyaktigat Swatantrata aur Aavajahi ka Adhikaar: Bharat ke Samvidhan ke tehat aapko kaam ke mauke prapt karne aur desh ke andar bina kisi rukavat ke swatantrata se ghoomne ka moolbhoot adhikaar hai. Aapke pita ke dwara aapko kaam karne ya Bangalore jaane se rokna aapke moolbhoot adhikaron ka ullanghan hai, jise kanooni roop se challenge kiya ja sakta hai (Anuchhed 19 aur 21).

Aapraadhik Dhamki aur Utpeedan: Aap aur aapke dost ke khilaaf sharirik hani ki dhamkiyan aur jabardasti ki gayi kaarwai, Bharatiya Nyaya Sanhita (BNS) 2023 ke Section 351 ke antargat aati hain jo aapraadhik dhamki se sambandhit hai. Iske alawa, bina aapki anumati ke psychotropic substances ka prashasan Bharatiya Nyaya Sanhita (BNS) 2023 ke Section 123 ke tehat ek aparaadh hai (zeher ya behosh karne wale padarthon ke madhyam se chot pahunchaane ka aparaadh).

Mansik aur Sharirik Utpeedan: Nirantar chalu sharirik aur mansik atyachar Domestic Violence Act, 2005 ke pravdhaanon ka bhi ullanghan karta hai. Aapko is kanoon ke tehat suraksha, aashray aur chikitsa sewa prapt karne ka adhikaar hai, jo court ke madhyam se protection order ke jaari hone ko bhi shamil karta hai.

Mansik Swasthya aur Samarthan: Yeh atyant aavashyak hai ki aapki mansik sthiti ko prathmikta di jaye. Agar aapko aatmahathya ke vichaar aate hain, toh main turant mansik swasthya professionals se samarthan lene ki salah deti hoon.

Mansik Swasthya Dekhbhaal Adhiniyam, 2017 ke tehat, har vyakti ko mansik swasthya sewaon tak pahunch ka adhikaar hai, jo sankat ke samay mein uchit upchaar sunischit karti hain.

Sujhaaye gaye Kadam:

Prashasan se sampark karein: Aapko turant apni local police ko dhamkiyon aur atyachar ki report karni chahiye. Aap relevant sections ke tehat ek FIR file kar sakti hain. Local police ko aisi shikayaton par action lena zaroori hota hai taaki aapki suraksha sunischit ho sake.

Kanooni Suraksha Prapt Karein: Domestic Violence Act ke tehat shikayat file karne se aapko protection orders milenge, jo aapke pita ko aapse sampark karne ya nuksan pahunchane se rokenge.

Chikitsa Saboot Ikattha Karein: Psychotropic substances ke prashasan ke sambandh mein saboot ikattha karein aur surakshit rakhein, jisme medical prescriptions ya gavaah jo in ghatnaon ki pushti kar sakein, shamil hain. Yeh saboot agar criminal charges uthaye jayein toh atyant mahatvapurn rahenge.

Surakshit Sthal par Jayein: Di gayi dhamkiyon aur khatron ko dekhte hue, yeh salah di jaati hai ki aap ek surakshit jagah par chali jayein. Kisi vishwasniya sangathan ya shelter home se madad lena is sthiti ke hal hone tak temporary accommodation pradan karne mein madadgar ho sakta hai.

Aapka adhikaar atyachar, jabardasti, aur dhamkiyon se mukt jeevan jeene ke liye kanoon dwara surakshit hai. Main sakht salah deti hoon ki aap local legal aid services ya kisi vakil se madad lein taaki aapki suraksha sunischit ho sake aur jimmedaar vyaktiyon ke khilaaf kanooni kaaryawahi shuru ho sake.

Agar aapko aur kanooni madad ya uplabdh sahayak sewaon ki jaankari chahiye, toh kripya mujhse sampark karne mein sankoch na karein.

Varija Singh

May 26, 2024

My husband abuses me physically and verbally , also he vervally abuses my family

Anonymous

June 12, 2024

My mother in law abuse me and says bad things about my family also. Her behaviour changes in front of my husband and he also knows that she is not going to change. She uses very bad words and due to her bad behaviour with society people, police came last year but she is not changing at all. I get mental stress sometimes and get suicidal thoughts but I have two kids and I don’t want to die. Please help.

Sikha

October 21, 2024

First, please talk to your husband about his mother’s behaviour. It seems like he is aware of the way his mother treats you but is not doing anything about it. Tell him that this is affecting your mental health to the point of suicidal ideation. You can ask him to talk to her and tell her to either change her behaviour or the only option is that she lives separately from you and your family. Tell him that this distance is necessary since her abuse has become a very serious issue for you. In terms of legal recourse, your mother in law’s behaviour falls within the definition of domestic violence under the Protection fo Women against Domestic Violence Act 2005 since it includes verbal abuse also. Please start recording the things she says to you so that you have proof for what you are claiming. You can either directly contact the police or you can contact the NGO or women’s organisation which is the notified service provider in your state (this information is available on the website of the social welfare or women’s welfare/ empowerment department of the state government) and ask them to help you in filing a ‘Domestic Incident Report’ against your mother in law and seek a protection order against her. Since the police have already been involved before, this should not be difficult since there is previous history of similar behaviour. You can also call the women’s helpline number in your state if your mother in law gets too abusive in your husband’s absence. You can also contact your state’s commission for women. The contact numbers should be available on the internet. You can also call the helpline numbers for violence against women, provided by the National Commission for Women – http://www.ncw.nic.in/helplines.

Safina khan

June 13, 2024

Hii,,
Mujhe mere husband mentally aur physically bohot torchure karte hai.mere in laws bhi pity issues par mujhse ladte hai,mujhe meri saas aur sister in law abusive words deti hai.meri saas mere husband ko dinbhar bhadkaati hai.mujhe unse hamesha dur rakhti hai.mujhe maar kar jagda karke mere maayke bheja gaya aur 2 mahine baad without intimate inform kiye mere husband ne mujhe divorce papers bheje hai.mere paas Mera 6 months ka baccha bhi hai plzz help me regarding this issue.we are Muslim family aur mere husband ne Muslim personal law ke according pehle talaq ke papers bheje hai.aur notary papers bheje hai.mujhe ye divorce nahi chahiye.plZ mujhe bataye ki mai kya karu kya action lu.aur uske saare step mjhe samjhaye.thanking you.

Kritika sharma

July 16, 2024

Hlo sir mujhe apse help chahiye. .
Mere sasural me mere jeth n mujhe kai bar gali di h ..jisme jethani unka pura sath deti h .pure ghar m bs wo sbse ldti rehti h .or ghar m sbhi log mujhe complain krne s mana kr dete h .sir meri shadi ek lov marriage thi jo ki court marriage thi.to jbse m sasural m ayi hu Tbse mere jeth jethani mujhe Hmesa tana marty h k dahej ni layi h or dono gali b dete h.mere papa n meri shadi m support kiya tha or ab wo expire ho chuke h meri mummi shamil ni thi Meri shadi m to unko koi bolne ane ni deta h meri mmi ko b jeth jethani gali bakte h or mujhe bhi. Sir meri ek beti h.mujhe bht preshan kr k rakha h aisa lgta h m suicide na kar lu bht gande behaviour s gali bakte h y log mujhe kiuki inko pta h k koi ayga ni inki side lene isi bat ka fayda uthate h y log.mujhe kya karna chahiye I m very depressed. Jethani bolti h k dahej p case ni kiya ja skta lov marriage m dahej k koi ni sunta h to kya sir m puri life bs inke tane sunti rahu mujhe kya krna chahiye .mere maa baap ko bewajah gali dene ka kya inko right h .plz help

Sikha

October 21, 2024

The steps to be taken are:- 1. Call the nearby women protection officer in your town/district, they will assist you in filing a complaint or helping you in any other way.
2.Call 181 for immediate help and counseling (National Commission for Women Helpline)
3. Seek legal protection and support through NGOs, legal aid, or the Protection of Women from Domestic Violence Act.

Tsundang

July 13, 2024

My mother daughter husband is harrasing me and says to keep my mouth shut what should i do

Kritika sharma

July 16, 2024

Plz share some instruction.

Prachi Jain

July 24, 2024

Ma’am I am facing domestic violence for some time now.My parents are behaving in a bad manner.I cannot find any help from outside.I can’t go for asking help from my cousins as they have openly expressed their no for help .please help me.

Rubi Paswan

August 24, 2024

Meri maa mere papa rehte hue kisi aur se sadi kr leti hai hmlog hostel me rehte the 4bhai bhn. Hmlog se milne nhi jati hai. jb hm 10 ka exam deke hostel se niklte hai to ghr jake dekhte hai ma puri bdl gyi hai usko koi frk nhi prta hai hmlog se mujhe nhi pata rehta hai ma itna bdmasi krti mujhe bhn letter bhejti bs is liye hostel se niklte hai fir ma hmlog ko apnana nhi chahti hai tb mujhe Bhai bhn ka kharch uthana prta hai fir 2sal bad ma rona dhona karti hai to bhai bhn ma ke pas chle aata hai fir whi mar pit jhmela fir hm leke chale ate hai COVID ke ek sal bad maa fir bula leti hai fir bhai bhn chle aata aur mujhe Papa ka v khrch uthana prta hai. To mera papa death kr jate hai maa ko lgta hai sb peisa mujhe milega bol ke bhai bhn se maar khilata hai. hm fir tamilnadu kam me chle jate hai silai ka poppys company me , wha v call ata hai kuch mhina bad jo maa ghr me peisa nhi deta hai khane pine ka hm vejte hai fir kuch din baad chle aate qki ma jhuth bol ti hai bhn ka bhot tbiyat khrab hai hm sambhal nhi pa rahe hai. Aur dusra sadi jisse krti wo bhi mr jata hai wo admi kam nhi krta tha meri uska family ka kharch uthati thi bt hmlog ka nhi.uske mrne ke baad fir abhi sadi kr li hmlog v bde ho gye hai. Humlog nhu accept kr pa rahe hai kala jadu yesb krti hai. Hmlog ka document sb chori kr li thi mera bhai peidl school jata hai roj bhot dur hai na ghr me ration rehta hai na bhn ko peisa deti hai kaam peidl peidl jati hai.bhot insan se lon le rakhi hai.bt kisi aur ke liye humlog ke liye kuch nhi ki aj tk hm aur bardasht nahi kr pa rahe hai aplog help kriye Thoda plss sir, ma’am . Aur bhi bohot sara baat hai jo btana chahta hai apko mere njr me maa glt kr rhi hai yesb pr koi koi maa ko support kr rha hai jo uska v life hai maa apne baare me soch ke do bar sadi kr li aur humlog humlog ka future nhi hai kuch kaam krne se bolegi gnda kaam kr rhi hai. Gari ka kiraya nhi degi na ghr me khane pine ka sman is trh hone se hmlog na kaam kr pate hai na kuch kr pate wo sirf apne baare me sochte huye aayi hai

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Who can seek Protection against Domestic Violence?

Any woman can file a complaint and seek protection against domestic violence under the law, for herself and her child/children. The religion of the woman does not matter.

What is the Time Limit to Complain against Domestic Violence?

There is no specific time limit for filing a complaint against domestic violence, but you must be able to prove that you were in a domestic relationship with the harasser at the time the violence took place.

How can you get Immediate Protection for Domestic Violence?

To seek immediate protection from domestic violence, you should file an application with the Court with the help of a Protection Officer or a lawyer.

What is Counseling under Domestic Violence law?

Counseling refers to the provision of professional guidance by a counselor, who will help you and your harasser settle the matter of the domestic violence you have faced, furnish a guarantee that violence will not repeat, and come up with the best possible solution to the problem of domestic violence.

What is domestic violence?

Domestic violence refers to violent or abusive behavior in a household that causes harm and may put the health and safety of a woman or any child under her custody in danger.

What is a Shared Household ?

You live in a shared household with your harasser if you lived with the harasser, have a domestic relationship with the harasser and have/do not have a legal share in the house.

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