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You can complain against both men and women for domestic violence. You can complain against the following:
- Your family: You can complain about your family, if they are subjecting you to domestic violence, in the following circumstances:
- If you are related to the harasser by blood, you can file a case against them. For example, your father, brother, etc.
- If you are related to your harasser by marriage, you can file a case against them, such as your in-laws, husband, etc.
- If you are related to your harasser by virtue of living together as a joint family, you can file a case against them. For example, your grandmother, uncle, adopted brother, etc. However, you can complain only against those who were complicit in the violence.(( Ashish Dixit v. State of UP & Anr. (2013) 4 SCC 176.)) For example, if you live in a joint family with ten people, and only your mother-in-law and husband subjected you to violence, you can complain only against them.
- Your live-in partner: If your live-in partner hurts or abuses you, you can file a complaint against him.
- Minors: You can complain against a minor who is subjecting you to domestic violence.(( Hiral P. Harsora v. Kusum Narottamdas Harsora (2016) 10 SCC 165.)) For example, if a 16 year old boy in your family is physically hurting you, then you can file a complaint for domestic violence.
While going to Court, keep in mind that you must have been subjected to domestic violence by someone with whom you have shared not only a domestic relationship but also shared a household.
Some states provide handbooks for ASHA workers where you can find more information on forms on violence and how to file a complaint to seek protection against domestic violence. For example, see this handbook published for ASHA in Chattisgarh, Delhi, Jharkhand, Madhya Pradesh and Uttarakhand.
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What is Counseling under Domestic Violence law?
Counseling refers to the provision of professional guidance by a counselor, who will help you and your harasser settle the matter of the domestic violence you have faced, furnish a guarantee that violence will not repeat, and come up with the best possible solution to the problem of domestic violence.
Sania siddiqui
August 26, 2022
There is only 2 months left for the marriage and yesterday when we both were talking meraj told me that there is some money given to father in law and uncles..i just said if that was the case you guys must have informed us before…to this he replied i am putting everything on him and his family and blaming then where that was all our mistake because we did not asked then what are your demands or what is the process…since then we are having a terrible conversation knocking each other.
Nyaaya
September 5, 2022
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Aditya kartikey
September 18, 2023
My elder brother harrass me abuse me and physically hurt me daily he also abuses my mother whenever she tries to protect me what should I do everyone in my area know this thing should I consider police he even threatened to kill me he’s 18 year old?
Alka Manral
September 2, 2024
You can go to your nearest police station and file a FIR against your brother. Make sure to provide details about the physical abuse, verbal threats, and any other harmful behaviour. Mention that he has threatened to kill you. The threat to kill you is covered under Section 506 IPC which is a non bailable offence. Your mother can file a complaint under The Protection of Women from Domestic Violence Act, 2005 and you can be included in the protection order. If you can, document any injuries, threats, or abusive behaviour. Photographs of injuries or recordings of threats can be valuable evidence in legal proceedings.
Aparna Pande
March 29, 2024
My father mother elder brother and family related to my mother pressurized me for marriage and forcefully fixed my marriage I don’t want to get married for next two year and I am not happy with the decision of my family but still they are not ready to listen and forcing me for everything. My age is 28 years and I totally want to focus on my career and I don’t want to get married of my family choice. Please help me I need your help urjently please it’s an request.
My number – 9881169219
Alka Manral
May 30, 2024
I understand that this is an extremely stressful situation to be in. Firstly, have an honest open communication with your parents and explain your goals and ideal timeline for all this, while acknowledging their desire to see you settled. But seeing as they are not ready to listen, be prepared to walk away. Remember that your safety and wellbeing is of utmost importance. Forced marriage is illegal and one cannot be married off without their consent at all. Remember that if it comes to that, it will be a very difficult situation for you and your family, and you will be forced to take legal measures. If you are a woman who is being forced, approach the National Commission for Women at 181. They might be able to assist you directly. Also know your legal rights and explain that if the situation arises you will not be afraid to take legala action. This may persuade your parents to listen to you. Throughout the course of action, you will need very strong conviction and be firm in your decision to not be married off. You, and only you, can choose who you want to marry and when. 1. S.366 IPC- Since they are trying to induce you to compel marriage, you can file a case under section 366 IPC. What they are trying to do is a very serious offence in the eyes of the law. For this, the convicts might be punished with imprisonment of up to 10 years and also fine. Remember that you don’t need to give in to the pressures exerted by them. Also, if the police is not helping you adequately, then directly file a court complaint under section 200 of the CrPC i.e., go to a magistrate’s court and directly state your complaint and you will get the help.
2. What your family members are trying to do is also punishable under the Protection of Women from Domestic Violence Act, 2005. Their actions constitute domestic violence as defined in section 3 of this Act, and you can file a case against them under this provision as well. Remember that this Act squarely covers the situation you are in- you are an aggrieved person within section 2(a) and the relationship you are sharing with your family members is a domestic relationship in terms of section 2(f).
Lastly, and importantly, contact the National Commission for Women and brief them about your situation so that your safety is not jeopardised. Apart from reaching out to them through their contact number, you can also register a complaint online by clicking here. You should also reach out to State Women Commissions simultaneously.
Sridevi Neerchal
October 21, 2023
Hi.. My Mother in law constantly abuses her power and harasses my husband for money which creates bad environment in our personal life and mentally disturbs me. Can I file complaint against my mother in law for harassment and abuse.
Disha
May 2, 2024
My friend’s mother is getting abused and harassed by her elder sister. They live as a joint family. She scolds her and sometimes throw things on her like garbage , water etc. This all going on since past 2 years.due to property partition they can’t separate.My friend is so sad about all these things happening to her own mother. She can’t really cope up with all this and want justice. Plz help
Alka Manral
August 20, 2024
Your friend’s mother has recourse under the Protection of Women from Domestic Violence Act 2005. Her elder sister is included in the definition of domestic relationship since they are family members who live as a joint family. Your friend or the mother herself could approach the police station and ask to file a DIR (similar to FIR) under S 10. She could also approach a service provider under the DV Act which are usually social welfare associations/ women’s organisations/ NGOs – a list of such organisations is usually available on the state government website of the women empowerment/ social welfare/ family welfare department. She could also get a lawyer or ask the appointed protection officer (ask at the police station who the appointed protection officer is) to file an application directly before a magistrate under S 12 for a protection under S 18 and monetary relief under S 20 for all the cruelty she has been subjected to. Also, ask your friend and any family members who are in support of the mother to start collecting evidence of such cruelty and abuse as they happen such as audio-video recordings that can help her case.
poonam
October 18, 2022
Meri shaadi ko 13.5 years ho gaye hain mera 3.5 saal ka baby bhi hai. Mere pati shuru se sharabi hai, maine bahut samjhaya lekin woh nahi samjhte hain. Unko bahut baar hospitalised karvaya hai aur jaan bachai hai lekin unki aadton mai koi badlaav nahi hai. Mere In-Laws Ghaziabad rehte hain, unko sab pata hai lekin woh koi help nahi karna chahte hain. Mere pati sharab peekar ghar mai gali aur maar peet karte hain. Maine kabhi koi complaint nahi ki unke against, darti thi aur har baar mauka de deti thi lekin abhi kuch din phele maine 100 number par call kia aur police aai aur mere pati ko warning di lekin abhi dobara se wahi sab shuru ho gaya hai. Mein mentally harrased hu aur mera bachcha bhi. Mere pati governemnt employee hai aur aaj tak unohone mera naam ya bachche ka naam apne service record mai nahi likhvaya hai. maine bahut request kari lekin har baar taal dete hai. mujhe apne future ki bahut chinta hai aur us se zyada apne bachche ke future ki. Mujhe saare rights chahiye aur sabse phele is abusive relationship ka solution chahiye. Subah shaam sharab pete hain, office nahi jate 1 week tak bhi ghar bethe hain mere husband. Please meri help kijiye.
Nyaaya
October 25, 2022
We’re so sorry to read about your plight. Thank you for contacting Ask Nyaaya. Here’s what you can do: The wife can file a complaint against the husband in a police station or under the magistrate stating the grounds of divorce as cruelty. To constitute cruelty, the conduct complained of should be “grave and weighty” so as to come to the conclusion that the petitioner spouse cannot be reasonably expected to live with the other spouse. It must be something more serious than “ordinary wear and tear of married life”. The conduct taking into consideration the circumstances and background has to be examined to reach the conclusion whether the conduct complained of amounts to cruelty in the matrimonial law.
poonam
October 18, 2022
Mere Saas Sasur sirf paiso ki lalchi hai, unko paisa de do to woh khush hai nahi to unko hamari problems se koi lena dena nahi hai. Mere pati ko bhadkate hai, mujhe torture karvate hai bas yahi kaam hai unka.
Mere pati kehte hai tujhe apni sarkari naukri ka PF aur Gratuity mai se kuch nahi dunga, tujhe aur tere bachche ko sadak par la dunga. mujhe darr lagta hai kyunki meri private naukri hai.
office ke documents mai bhi changes nahi karva rahe hain 13.5 saal se, request kar karke thak gai hu. mental aur physical torture alag hai.
Mere bachche ko bhi mentally aur physically torture karte hain. Please help
Nyaaya
October 25, 2022
We’re so sorry to read about your plight. Thank you for contacting Ask Nyaaya. Here is the answer: There are a number of means and ways through which a woman can be harassed by her in-laws. The harassment may be either by her husband or her mother-in-law or by any other in-laws.
Cruelty may be either physical or mental. It is not necessary that to get justice against the in-laws a physical cruelty has to happen but a mental cruelty too would serve as a proper evidence to take a legal action against her in-laws.
The provisions of law dealing with the harassment of a woman by her in-laws are Sections 498- A, 509, 304-B, 306, of the Indian Penal(IPC), the Domestic Violence Act, 2005 and Dowry Prohibition Act, 1961.
An aggrieved person may file an FIR under the abovementioned relevant provisions of the IPC.
A complaint can be presented to the Magistrate under Section 12 of the DV Act. Any other person can also file this complaint on behalf of the aggrieved person and sought the reliefs provided under the Act.
salil verma
October 11, 2023
मेरी माँ समान आंटी के बड़े बेटे के बेटे की पत्नी ने घरेलु हिंसा के एक झूठे मुक़दमे में अपनी दादी सास का नाम लिखवा दिया है ,जबकि मेरे अंकल ने अपनी मृत्यु से पूर्व ही अपने बड़े बेटे और उसके परिवार को अपनी चल-अचल संपत्ति से बेदखल किया हुआ है और बड़ा बेटा अपनी पत्नी व दोनों बच्चों के साथ अलग रहता है बड़े बेटे का बेटा अपनी शादी के बाद से जबरदस्ती अपनी पत्नी के साथ दादी के घर में रह रहा है और उसकी पत्नी ने एक झूठा घरेलु हिंसा का मुकदमा न्यायालय में दर्ज करा दिया है जिसमे उसने दादी सास के साथ -साथ अपने सास -ससुर और बुआ सास के नाम भी लिखवाये है कृपया सलाह दे की दादी सास और बुआ सास का नाम कैसे निकलवाया जाए।
Sikha
September 11, 2024
कृपया इस विषय में सर्वोत्तम मार्गदर्शन के लिए विधिक सलाह लें और इस मामले को अपील या पुनरीक्षण में या उच्च न्यायालय के समक्ष उठाएं। वकील मामले के दस्तावेजों की समीक्षा के बाद आपको उचित सलाह देंगे।
श्री चौधरी
October 22, 2024
माझ नाव श्री आहे मी 26 वर्षाचा आहे. माझे फेसबुक वर एक लग्न झालेल्या मुलीशी ओळख झाली मैत्री झाली. त्या नंतर त्या मुलीने मला सांगितले की माझा नवरा मला खूप मारतो. शिवीगाळ करतो. कोणतीही गोष्ट घेऊन दिली तर मी घेऊन दिली तुझी लायकी नाही आहे असे बोलतो. म्हणुन मी तिला मदत म्हणुन सांगायला गेलो. तर त्यांनी मला अणि तिला खुपच मारले. तिचे आई वडील भाऊ खूप मारत आहे खोटे आरोप करत आहे. जबरदस्त नि त्याचे जावळ रहा.असे सांगत आहेत.
या वर काही उपाय असेल तर सांगा साहेब काय करू शकतो. मी plz
Adarsh goswami
October 13, 2023
I am (M 23 years) living with my father ,mother and younger sister(F 14 years ). My mother , I and my younger sister used to live with our maternal grandparents there my mother had an affair with another man and now when we are finally back living together all four of us my mother and father fights like hell both verbally and physically . My mother is verbally very abusive and says things that are not meant to say infront of a 14yr old girl . Now we are stuck in this hell for 4 months cause i am preparing for govt exams and my sister studies in 8 class . What should i do ?? Whenever we go back to live with our grandparents my mother used to come outside of our house and starts abusing my nana and nani to and she used to do this regularly . Anything that i can do legally ??
Alka Manral
September 2, 2024
There is no specific law that protects children from abuse from parents. Please help out your sister and try availing for some emotional support from friends, relatives, teachers etc. It is important for you to protect your sister from any form of abuse. You must also keep calm in such situations and try studying somewhere quiet. The mental health of you and your sister is of utmost importance. Please try contacting the Central Social Welfare Board through these helpline numbers- 1091/ 1291, (011) 23317004. They will connect you to your respective State Social Welfare Board.
If things worsen, you can file a complaint here – https://ncpcr.gov.in/ebaalnidan/main/complaint You can select “Juvinile Justice” as the complaint head.
Suhas Desai
October 13, 2023
My Father and two elder brothers had admitted me mental hospital because I was going to marry a girl and relocate to different flat and broke my wedding. I want to file a case against them. Please help. I have enough evidence to prove it.
Alka Manral
September 2, 2024
you can go to high court and file writ petition, as it is illegal to forcibly admit someone to mental hospital without proper procedure.
Varsha patlar
April 3, 2024
Mai ek pvt job karti hu. Pati ka job chala gaya hai. Ghar pe pura din sota raheta hai. Ghar ka kharcha mai uthati hu. Mere Saas Sasur sirf paiso ki lalchi hai, unko paisa de do to woh khush hai nahi to unko hamari problems se koi lena dena nahi hai. Mere pati ka bhai muje mar dalne ki dhamki deta hai. Uski biwi aur bachhe muje maarte hai aur gaali deta hai. Pati ko pancrea issue hai jo mere gharwalo ko Bataya hi nahi. 4 baar admit kiya hai. Hospital ka kharcha khud kiya hai. Ab mere pass bilkul paise nahi. Aur karja ho chuka hai. Pati kaha kaha se karja leta hai. Woh bhi mai chukati hu. Maayke wale bhi dhyan nahi dete. Kya Karu. Pati ke bhabhi ne ki hui gali galoch aur paise ki maang ka video hai. Bank statement se payment ka details hai. Ab konsa Complaint aur konse section lagau. Muje Ghar khali karna padega kya kyunki Ghar sasur ke naam hai
Rubin Law P.C.
May 23, 2024
This article provides crucial information on who you can complain against for domestic violence, breaking down the different scenarios and relationships involved. It’s empowering to know that regardless of gender, age, or familial ties, anyone experiencing abuse can seek help and justice. The clarity in explaining the various situations, such as familial, marital, or live-in partner violence, makes it easier for individuals to understand their rights and take action. Additionally, the inclusion of legal references adds credibility to the information presented. Overall, this article effectively educates and empowers readers, making strides towards ending domestic violence.
Alka Manral
May 30, 2024
आप या आपकी ओर से कोई भी, आपके पति के रिश्तेदारों द्वारा आपके साथ की गई किसी भी घरेलू हिंसा के खिलाफ शिकायत दर्ज करने के लिए नीचे सूचीबद्ध अधिकारियों से संपर्क कर सकता है:
पुलिस
पुलिस स्टेशन जाओ
आप अपने क्षेत्र के पुलिस स्टेशन या किसी अन्य पुलिस स्टेशन से संपर्क कर सकते हैं और घरेलू हिंसा की शिकायत दर्ज करा सकते हैं। पुलिस एक डीआईआर/एफआईआर दर्ज करेगी और/या आपको जिले के संरक्षण अधिकारी के पास भेजेगी जो आपकी आगे मदद करने में सक्षम होगा।
संरक्षण अधिकारी
संरक्षण अधिकारी से संपर्क करें
शिकायत दर्ज करने के लिए जिले का संरक्षण अधिकारी आपके लिए संपर्क का पहला बिंदु होगा। संरक्षण अधिकारी आपको घरेलू घटना रिपोर्ट (डीआईआर) दर्ज करने में मदद करेगा, आपको मौद्रिक राहत, सुरक्षा आदि दिलाने के लिए अदालत में आवेदन करेगा। संरक्षण अधिकारियों की राज्य-दर-राज्य सूची यहां दी गई है। यदि आपको अपने क्षेत्र का सुरक्षा अधिकारी नहीं मिल रहा है, तो आप गैर सरकारी संगठनों, नागरिक समाज संगठनों और सेवा प्रदाताओं से संपर्क कर सकते हैं जो आपको किसी से संपर्क कराएंगे।
महिलाओं के लिए राष्ट्रीय और राज्य आयोग
राष्ट्रीय/राज्य महिला आयोग से संपर्क करें
राष्ट्रीय महिला आयोग (एनसीडब्ल्यू) एक राष्ट्रीय स्तर का सरकारी संगठन है जो महिलाओं द्वारा सामना किए जाने वाले मुद्दों, जैसे घरेलू हिंसा, दहेज उत्पीड़न, बलात्कार आदि से संबंधित शिकायतों की जांच करने के लिए सशक्त है। एनसीडब्ल्यू आपकी मदद करेगा:
पुलिस के नेतृत्व में की जा रही जांचों की निगरानी और तेजी लाई जा रही है।
एनसीडब्ल्यू के समक्ष परामर्श या सुनवाई प्रदान करना, ताकि दोनों पक्षों के बीच विवाद का समाधान हो सके।
एक जांच समिति का गठन करना जो मौके पर जांच करती है, गवाहों की जांच करती है, साक्ष्य एकत्र करती है और घरेलू हिंसा के संबंध में सिफारिशों के साथ रिपोर्ट प्रस्तुत करती है।
आप या तो हेल्पलाइन नंबर 1091 पर कॉल करके, या ncw@nic.in पर ईमेल भेजकर या ऑनलाइन शिकायत दर्ज करके उनसे संपर्क कर सकते हैं। चूंकि एनसीडब्ल्यू नई दिल्ली में स्थित है, आप अपने राज्य में स्थित राज्य महिला आयोग से संपर्क कर सकते हैं और उनसे मदद मांग सकते हैं।
कुछ राज्य आशा कार्यकर्ताओं के लिए हैंडबुक प्रदान करते हैं जहां आप हिंसा पर प्रपत्रों के बारे में अधिक जानकारी पा सकते हैं, यह कहां हो सकती है और घरेलू हिंसा के खिलाफ सुरक्षा पाने के लिए शिकायत कैसे दर्ज करें। उदाहरण के लिए, छत्तीसगढ़, दिल्ली, झारखंड, मध्य प्रदेश और उत्तराखंड में आशा के लिए प्रकाशित इस पुस्तिका को देखें।
Taniya
May 12, 2024
Mera naam taniya h mujhe mere pati or sasural walo se pareshaan hu mere pati bhot nasha karte h mujh pe chillate maarte h gaali dete h preshaan krte h baat baat pe mujhe bar m Jane ki baat karte h kehte waha Jake kaam kr mere pati humara kharcha nhi uthate mere do ladhke bada wala mere saas ne le liya mere pass rakhne nhi deti or na mere pati kamate na mujh ko kaam karne dete kehte h tu dhanda kar ja k mai karu mujhe mera bachha chahiye.
SJ
September 3, 2024
My father repeatedly asks me and my wife to leave the house. The house belongs to my grandfather who is deceased. Recently, my father has started getting the neighbor’s dobermann dog and keeps it in shared spaces in the house to threaten us. The dog has tried to attack my wife multiple times and she is extremely traumatized. Also my father deliberately makes our pet dog defecate in our bedroom to cause nuisance. What can I do? Me, my mother, sister, wife are all traumatized by my father’s behavior. What can I do? Whom can I reach out to? Its no use talking to the neighbor, as it can be some other dog, if not the neighbor’s
Div
September 4, 2024
My father assaulted my mother in front of me recently, while I was staying with them for four days. I don’t live with them as I live in a different house. He’s been extremely abusive and violent to her and my brother and me our whole lives but hasn’t dared to hit me in the last decade and half since I don’t live with them and because he knows I’ll file a police complaint against him without any hesitation at all.
I secretly managed to record him asualting her and have the whole incident in videos with me.
I want to know if it’s possible for me to file a complaint of any type of abuse against him with the police, because my mother won’t do it out of fear of him. After what I saw him do to her I’m not afraid of him anymore. I just hate and despise him.
He needs to be stopped before he murders my mother. Please advise me on what options lie ahead of me.
Ananta
October 2, 2024
माझ्या लग्नाला 3वर्ष जवळपास पूर्ण होतील ,माझा संसार खूप सुरळीत आणि खूप चांगला होता ,मी माझ्या आई वाडील पासून वेगळा राहतो नोकरी निमित्त करण,3 वर्षात माझे आणि बायको मध्ये खूप प्रेम,अधून मधून दोघांमध्ये वाद पण व्हायचे पण मी कमीपणा घेऊन तिला समजावून सांगून पुन्हा सुरळीत चालायचं ,तिला लग्नांनातर जॉब करायचा होता,त्यासाठी तिने पण प्रयत्न केले मी पण तिच्यासाठी प्रयत्न केले,एका ठिकाणी जॉब लागला पण तिने तो जॉब 6 महिन्यानंतर सोडून दिल,करण रिस्क managementतिला जमलंच नाही,6 महिन्या मध्ये तिला हव्या त्या गोष्टी दिला,जॉब वर सोडणे किंवा आणणे,गरज असेल तेव्हा त्या गोष्टीबदल सहकार्य करणे,तेव्हा पण छोटे वाद व्हायची पण काहीवेळा नंतर ऑटोमॅटिक सुरळीत चालायचं,जॉब सोडल्यानंतर तिने बाळ पाहिजे म्हणून सांगितलं मग त्यासाठी उपचार घेण्यास सुरुवात केली,आम्ही उपचार घेतले,गावी वडिलांची तब्येत जरा सिरीयस होती म्हणून आम्ही थोडे दिवस गावी जायचो पुन्हा मुंबई ला यायचो ,काही दिवस तिने सुद्धा गावी काढले,काही घर काम करण्यासाठी,काही दिवस गेल्यानंतर वडील स्वर्गवास झाला,त्यानंतर आम्ही दोघे पण पुन्हा मुंबईत आलो,त्यानंतर ती बोली मी सॉफ्टवेअर चे क्लास करते त्याला पण मी परवानगी देत तिला सहकार्य केले,या मध्ये आमची बाळासाठी राहण्यासाठी उपचार चालूच होते ,मी हवा तेवढा तिच्यासाठी खर्च करतो शेवटी मला बाळ पाहिजे होता,हव्या त्या गोष्टी पूर्ण करायचो ,त्यानंतर काही दिवसानी आम्हाला आनंदाची बातमी भेटली,आम्ही दोघे पण खूप खुश होतो,pregancy मध्ये तिला होणारा त्रास मी समजून घायचो,वेळेवर dr visit, बाकी सगळ्या गोष्टी मी पूर्ण केल्या,कधी ती पण iritate होत होती आणि मला पण तेवढाच त्रास देत होती,मी सावरून घेयचो पण ती मुद्धाम वाढवायची का ऑटोमॅटिक तिच्या कडून होत मला समजत नव्हतं माझी पण चीड चीड होत होती तिच्यावर,आता 7 महिने पूर्ण झाले आमच्या गावच्या घरी डोहल कार्यक्रम करून तिला माहेरी पाठवलं ,आता 9 महिने लागलेत ,माझ्या आईच,तीच पटत नही पहिल्यापासून ,त्यामुळे भाऊ पण बाईट आणि बहीण पण त्यामळे बहीण भाऊ आणि आई यांच्या मनात तिच्या बदल नेहमी तिरस्कार,कारण आईला सून म्हणून काय केलं पाहिजे आणि कायनाही हेच समजत नव्हतं ,आईला खटकलं म्हणजे बहिणीला पण आणि भाऊ ला पण ,मी बायकोबादल सगळी सहानभूती ठेवली ,तिच्याबाजूने उभा राहिलो घाच्याच्यासोबत वाद केले,म पण वाईट झालो,आता असे झाले की ती माहेरी गेली आम्ही कॉल वर चौकशी करणे एवढ चालू होतं ,कल परवा माझी बायको आमच्या घरा जवळ येऊन गेली आरोग्य केंद्रात हे आईने पाहिले पण ती आमच्या घराजवळ येऊन गेली पण घरी नाही अली मानून ते आईला खटकले,मग आईने मला विचारपूस केली तर आईला सांगितलं यायचं नसेल तिला,तुला काय करायचं ते कर तिला काय ती करेल,तुमच्या दोघीच्या वादमध्ये मला नका मध्ये आणू, आई ने माफी मागून फोन ठेवला,तर मी बायकोला विचारणा केली ,तर तिने पण मला आई बदल उलट सुलट उतार दिले तर मी तिला चिडून शिस्तबद्ध राहा आणि नीट बोल पण ती ऐकायचं सोडून दुसराच काय बोलायला लागली मग मी चिडलो तर रडायला लागली,आणि तिच्या भावाने तिच्याकडून फोन हिसकावून मला उलट सुलट बोलायला लागला,नंतर माझा सन्मान आदर न ठेवयलमुळे मी पण हायपर होऊ। बोलायला लागलो ,नंतर बोलतो मला तुम्ही आम्हला फसवलं,लग्नात जेवढा खर्च झाला तो द्या आणि विषय सोडून द्या,आणि बराच काही माझ्या घरच्याबदल बोलून फोन ठेवला,नंतर मी पुन्हा फोन लावून त्यांना समजून सांगायचं प्रयन्त केला,पण त्याचं बोलणे असे की जे लग्नाच्या वेळेस बैठकेला होते त्यांना घेऊन बैठक घ्या आमचे पैसे आम्हाला द्या आणि विषय संपवा,आणि त्यानंतर तिचा भाऊ मला आणि माझ्या बायको ला बोलुन देत नाही आमच्या दोघांना वेगळा करण्याचा प्रयत्न करतो,आणि माझी बायको पण भावाची बाजू घेऊन ठाम आहे,आता ती prgancy condition मध्ये आहे म्हणून मला जास्त काळजी वाटते ,पण ती सुद्धा बोलत नाही मला टाळते, ignore करते ,मला माझे बाळ सुखरूप जन्म घ्यावे म्हणून मला काळजी वाटते आणि बायकोची सुद्धा,तिचा भाऊ माझ्या बायकोचे brain wash करतो negative गोष्टी साठी ,आम्हला वेगळे करण्यासाठी मला समजत नाही मी काय करू ,plz help me this site